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I wish I didnt tell him to pack his bags and get the f**k out, cause he did and the next day moved in with OW

I wish I had been more confident in the person I KNOW I am

I wish I would not have allowed myself to feel "less" because HE chose to cheat

I wish I would have been able to control my action better and not turned into the emotional mess I did

I wish I would have told the AP's husband everything I knew as he deserves to know

I wish I would have sheltered our kids from the ugliness that their selfish father created

I wish I would have relied more on God than Chardonnay for strength

I wish I wouldn't have told people I told because in the end they couldn't help and many caused only more pain with their "words of wisdom"

I wish I would have been better at loving me and letting him figure his own self out

I wish that no person would ever hurt another person through infidelity.

I wish that if you are unhappy you have the courage to speak the truth. Lies and deceit hurt WAY more that the truth

I wish I could wake up from this nightmare

1. I wish I had trusted my gut and confronted him earlier.

2. And when I did confront him the first time, I wish I had pushed harder and browbeaten him into a confession. I didn't manage to do that until the third confrontation.

3. I wish I had been less ready to say I wanted to reconcile--made him work harder. (He's very remorseful and has turned himself around, but I wish I had made him sweat a little more in the beginning.)