This used to be a much longer list for me... Almost a year later, I guess I am healing. 
Here are some things that still sting a bit:
Her name (its unusual)
Her hometown
The city where they now live together
Pendleton Whiskey (found a bottle they'd been sharing, in OUR bedroom!)
4door hardtop Jeep Wranglers, though thankfully he has now sold his
Diet Rockstar (his addiction)
Pawn Stars (another addiction. I hated it)
Movies/shows with an adultery theme
Las Vegas
Some things that were triggers, that I have now reclaimed for myself:
The country bar where I dance, where we used to go together, and even went with OW and her boyfriend once
Many different types of music I couldn't listen too because they were either triggery or just too sad
The house I live in, that used to be ours
The airport. I had a complete breakdown there, but the last trip I took, I did fine
SEX. Yeah.
And last but not least, hopefully... Hawaii. The place we got married, honeymooned, and revisited two years later. I've never been there without him, but I'm headed there (alone!) in three weeks. Wish me luck.
