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SparrowSoul ( member #44223) posted at 8:54 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
He's 35, she's 20. 20 with hardcore daddy issues-- To the point that she actually wanted to call him "Daddy." Wanted him to call her by childish pet-names... Apparently he consented to "Kiddo," which sickens me because that's something I call almost everybody I'm at all fond of, and it's something my own mother calls me. 
Me: BGF, 29
Him: WBF, 35 (RMarred)
D-Day: 7/5/2014, seared into my memory like a brand.
"Dum spiro, spero." - "While I breathe, I hope."
The cure to all of life's problems is salt water; Sweat, tears, or the Sea.
watersofavalon ( member #37984) posted at 10:03 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
OW was 25
H was 50.
She had already had an affair with a much older MM when she was in her teens - in fact 'affair' is the wrong word IMO, she was 'abused' by a much older MM. She has issues. Hell, clearly my H does too......
Me - BW 50
H - 53
T 32 years
M 21 years
3 children from 11 to 17.
EA with coworker for 6m maybe longer. She was 25!!
Dday 26/6/2012.
Reconciling. Hard work isn't it?
I guess we are there now. Things are good, very good, but we ha
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:51 AM on Sunday, August 10th, 2014
His 40 to her 23.
She was 14 when he and I met. 16 when we married.
She was born in 1988. The year he started work - he's still with the same company and celebrated his 25th anniversary with his 24 y/o office gopher/whore/GF standing by him.
The gap between him and my mum is the same as the gap between him and his GF.
She is a few years younger than one of his stepdaughters from his first relationship and the same age as his youngest stepdaughter - the one who was a sweet little girl of 13 when I met her and he saw her as the child she was. Same age as his GF.
Sick, sick fuck. One of my friends calls him Pedo Pete - his name isn't even Peter but I still roar with laughter at it. PP for short which also makes me laugh out loud.
In many ways the ridiculousness of it made it easier for me. Everyone knew exactly what he was and what this was when they realised he had probably been fucking her since she was 19 while is wife was at home pregnant and/or raising his children.
He is the worlds oldest cliche and she is just your garden variety whore.
I had his good years - I hope he takes hers and wastes the rest of his 40s on her. He took some of my good years but my best years are ahead of me.
He is ridiculous - she is ridiculous - they are ridiculous.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
FoggedIn ( member #40329) posted at 4:25 PM on Sunday, August 10th, 2014
Seems to be the common denominator!
I'm already 15 years younger than WH. I'm 39 & he's 54. He 'said' prostitute was 30. I'm guessing she was closer to 25.
Sure makes a girl feel shitty knowing you can't even keep a man 15 years older than you satisfied.
BW (40)
WH (55)
Blended family, 6 kids, 1 dil & i gd
Dday 1 8/10/13 PA ONS CL whore
DDay 2 8/15/15 -TT 3 Other PA w/escorts from 2004-2013? Not sure on dates. Status - No Clue!! Calling D attorney for advice
Love25 ( new member #44000) posted at 4:46 PM on Sunday, August 10th, 2014
My dumb ass brother in-law, who is 45 just married his 18 year old mistress. Left his wife of 25 years and my nieces. He was a preacher and like a father to this girl and he let it turn into more. Just me, my husband and nieces know. It drives me crazy, I feel like a liar, he needs to tell the family. Ugh, I married into a freak show!
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