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RubixCubed ( member #51615) posted at 10:21 PM on Sunday, October 8th, 2017
After the next strip club rejection or two, she'll just go straight to prostitution, or maybe even skip that and do it for free with whoever, just to spite you. Roblox, What's your plan once that goes down?
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"But I'm trying, Ringo. I'm trying real hard to be the shepherd."
Roblox83525 (original poster member #59163) posted at 12:14 AM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
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JadeC ( member #55609) posted at 12:39 AM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
It's very obvious you don't understand or care about the tremendous pain you are causing her. Why don't you just let her go? Or is it some kind of thrill to see her turn herself inside out because of your callous treatment of her?
Are either of you in counseling?
BS(me) 55
SAWH 54
M: Sept 1999
One son: 17
D-Day: Oct 10,2016
OwningItNow ( member #52288) posted at 12:47 AM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
She's upset. She's raging.
Who caused her pain?
And what is he doing to fix it?
me: BS/WS h: WS/BS
Reject the rejector. Do not reject yourself.
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 1:50 AM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
If you're serious, this is horrifying. Your poor wife.
Iwantmyglasses ( member #57205) posted at 3:18 AM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
How old are your children?
Roblox83525 (original poster member #59163) posted at 3:42 AM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
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Vickyb86 ( member #56517) posted at 11:05 AM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt here...
I can TOTALLY see how the core story of his can happen, I even thought about it after DDay (I am a pole dancing teacher)
Do you get how much you’ve made her feel worthless? This is her lapping up the attention.
DDay- 19 Nov '16
TT: July '17 - another past affair being brought to light
WH & 2 kids
william ( member #41986) posted at 1:36 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
You aren't the victim here. You created this mess. You respond to your wife's downward spiral into an insanity that you caused ... with laughter at her and continued mental/verbal abuse.
You aren't a good father. You spent money needed for the kids and house on nonsense. You literally took your kids food money and threw it away on your own gratification.
You really are a piece of work. You aren't just destroying your own life but also your wife's life and your kids. And feel sorry for yourself while doing it. Sigh....
me - bh
her - lara01
from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA
??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys
Roblox83525 (original poster member #59163) posted at 3:16 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
Yes, my own mother has told me this too.
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JadeC ( member #55609) posted at 5:18 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
You realize the money spent paying on the credit cards, plus interest, is still spending more money that could've been used for your family. Credit cards aren't free money.
You really do have a knack for rationalizing and justifying everything that you do.
Please get help for yourself and your wife.
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BS(me) 55
SAWH 54
M: Sept 1999
One son: 17
D-Day: Oct 10,2016
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:30 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
It's said that God prefers to see people repent and lead good lives rather than to punish them.
Other people can be brought around to thing the same. If you clean yourself up and become good partnership material, you can redeem yourself.
Think about Scrooge who turned from an unloved man full of hate into a well-loved man full of love.
You can do it. It'll be a lot harder IRL than in a novel, but you can do it.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
nekonamida ( member #42956) posted at 8:04 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017
Roblox, I hope both you and your BW get therapy. You treat her appallingly. You complain about her debt and yet you force her further into debt by spending money meant for your kids on hoes. You treat her worse than them even! The woman you claim to love, the mother of your children! Your mother is right about you. She sees you for exactly what you are. Even when you recognize how terrible you're being, you still can't stop yourself from continuing. Do this poor woman a favor and set her free if you can only stay committed to continuing this path of abuse.
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