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Tigersrule77 ( member #47339) posted at 1:27 PM on Friday, June 19th, 2020
Have you had the D talk with your WW yet?
And she'll be on a state programs with no income really to pay for insurance.
Clearly your WW wasn't worried about this issue during her A. Why should you worry about her future?
Is the father of the step-children in the picture? Has he been paying CS for the kids at all? Can he provide insurance for them?
More questions to ask your attorney, perhaps.
DBFool2019 ( member #72288) posted at 3:21 PM on Tuesday, June 30th, 2020
One, she gets her car back from dude. He's borrowed it now for a couple months during covid.
So......a homeless dude is driving around in your wife's car while he's banging her?
Ooooof brother! This is not R material in any way, shape, or form. Do you really want to stay in this marriage?
DBFool2019 ( member #72288) posted at 3:25 PM on Tuesday, June 30th, 2020
I just had a realization at 5am this morning. I'm pissed. She was lying to me about seeing him (and doing him) during covid lock down. Didn't matter to her if she exposed herself or brought it home to the kids or me. She was lucky that nothing has happened. I wonder if that thought even crossed her mind or was she so in lust with him she wasn't thinking straight
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He has her freaking car man! Of course she is still in contact with him!
relletreknit ( new member #74766) posted at 11:49 AM on Sunday, July 5th, 2020
If you want to come clean, concessions need to be full and complete. There is no other way. If she keeps any details from you, it’s same as convincing her that you are easygoing and would forgive this again. Only with complete story and all the details, she can be fully remorseful of what she did and understand that you weren’t kept as fool, so stop saying that you don’t need to know the details.
Another red flag in your story is that she took her sweet time before she came back to you. WS will almost always have chat with AP, try to figure out what to do or at least say loving good byes. In many cases, AP will realize the danger of getting exposed or get in to commitment. So when cover is lifted, AP will forcefully break off and WS will be all disillusioned and suddenly scramble around to make mends out of nowhere.
So be very careful of your situation. You need to ask very hard questions and tactfully. Despite the remorse, she may not be reconciliation material and may carry high risk of doing it all over if she feels next AP is different.
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