Sharkman ( member #56818) posted at 4:08 AM on Tuesday, September 16th, 2025
Did you ever hear back from the other guy’s spouse? It’s critical that she knows now - your wife moving out could be coordinated. He could be transferring money out and doing other shady things. She really, really needs to know.
AB1978 (original poster new member #86570) posted at 8:54 AM on Tuesday, September 16th, 2025
Hi Sharkman,
"Did you ever hear back from the other guy’s spouse? It’s critical that she knows now - your wife moving out could be coordinated. He could be transferring money out and doing other shady things. She really, really needs to know."
No, I didnt. It's possible she was out of the office etc yesterday I guess or junk filters intervened. I could of course have the wrong person, but there's lot of coincidences if I am wrong.
My wife hugely remorseful, numb, conselling arranged, we've agreed to work through things and she's told him she needs space (to which he rplied that she needs to focus on me and the kids. Its possible that this means he has realised he needs to do the same at his end, but upside is that it might shut that down from both directions). I know everyone will say that she could be lying but she knows the pain this has caused, and turmoil its causing her.
