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Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 11:10 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
he is a mean, violent drunk and I did not want anybody to get hurt.
This alone is reason not to get any deeper into the relationship. How long before the violence would have been turned on you?
Frauken, you seriously dodged a bullet. It may not feel like it now, but it is a huge blessing that his mask slipped he showed his ugly self so quickly.
FTG and big hugs to you.
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fraeuken (original poster member #30742) posted at 5:58 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
I saw the good, the bad and the ugly in this short time with him and yes I know, I dodged a bullet. There were many red flags literally hitting me in the face.
I also know that while things were good, they were crazy good. During those times I felt like I could let myself fall. I will never forget the night he held me when I broke down over not being with my DD on her 16th birthday. There are many moments that were beautiful and as close to perfect as I ever came with a man and that makes me believe that I can truly love somebody again in the future.
I have been hit on and asked out on dates the last few weeks since xSO and I broke up. It is almost as if guys feel I am not emotionally available and make it a conquest. I tried against my better judgment but I can't get myself to even get excited about anybody.
So, I will take a leave of absence so to say and focus on my DDs. I like my regained solitude 
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 6:55 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
So, I will take a leave of absence so to say and focus on my DDs. I like my regained solitude
This is what I'm doing right now.... I kinda needed a break from dating. Although no one has been hitting on me (that I'm aware of....) which sucks...but I don't get out much either...which could be part of the problem... IDK. I may need to buy cat stock at the YMCA.....
I'm hit the jackpot in the million dollar catlady lottery one day!!! 
[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 12:56 PM, October 11th (Friday)]
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