Webbit (original poster member #84517) posted at 8:23 AM on Monday, December 1st, 2025
This weekend just gone was hectic! Christmas Party, Friend Party and a 2nd Birthday party for our niece.
At every single one of those events I did not once think about the affair. I think that may be a new first. I had a great time at all events but was also so happy to go home and be our family.
It’s a nice feeling to not think about it…..even if it’s just for a few moments.
Asterisk ( member #86331) posted at 9:02 AM on Monday, December 1st, 2025
I am excited for you Webbit. It is a sign of growth and healing. The goal is to have more and more days that overtake the painful memories of the betrayal of infidelity that fights to take control and disrupt every aspect of one’s life.
It was nice to wake up to your good news.
Asterisk
Wedding:1973
WW's Affair: 1986-1988
D-Day: June 1991
Reconciliation in process for 32 years
Living in a marriage and with a wife that I am proud of: 52 years
