Selenite (original poster new member #87365) posted at 4:37 PM on Friday, June 12th, 2026
D day was just over 1 month ago so I appreciate it's still really early on, we have decided to trying and work things out and WH is saying/doing all the right things and we've had a lot of honest open conversations about things we never have before so that has been helpful. I just feel so up and down and I'm fine one day and then upset the next and he's telling me all these nice things but then I wonder if he means them or is just saying it to keep me happy it's just the whole trust thing, every time the phone goes I panic etc and he will show me and tell me who it is and let's me have his phone and he's even sent me pictures when he's out to show where he is which makes me feel better but I just feel a bit pathetic and it's not normal to have to do that. Don't really know what I want from this post I just feel a bit lost and am wondering if it's possible to ever get that trust back again?
