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How to deal with social accounts

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 7m46s (original poster new member #86651) posted at 4:27 PM on Saturday, June 27th, 2026

How do you handle social media? My WH used to be really active, especially on Instagram. On Facebook Messenger, he had a chat with a woman he’d had something going on with in the past (before our time), but that conversation was inappropriate too. He’s since deleted his Facebook account, but I agreed that he could keep his Instagram for now because he’s part of a community there through his hobby.

However, I don’t want him following random women he doesn’t even know. That really upset him. His logic was that I could just look through his phone and see he’s not actually in contact with any of them anyway.

How do you deal with this?

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 5:06 PM on Saturday, June 27th, 2026

Why is Instacrap so important to this hobby?

Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown

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