ForceOfWill (original poster new member #79729) posted at 9:17 AM on Saturday, July 18th, 2026
My wife had an affair almost 6 years ago. She has done everything right since then, but I am falling out of love with her. I don't know what to do anymore. I mean, she had an affair with a younger, more attractive man and larger man (down there), but a total loser in every other way. He was jobless, with no prospects, using older women to support his lifestyle. He literally had no job, no prospects, dropped out of college, but my wife went for him because he was young and attractive and fed her ego. Now she totally rejects what she was, but I just don't care anymore. I loved her, found her beautiful, but after the affair, my feelings slowly ebbed. It's like the more effort she put in, the worse my feelings got. I just hate to ruin 25 years of marriage, but I have so many options. I work out at the gym all the time. So many attractive women in the wings. I know that sounds horrible, but what am I supposed to feel? Maybe it is time to divorce and move on. I need some perspective.
