Sophielou (original poster new member #86356) posted at 11:39 AM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2026
Hi all,
So my DDay was last June, however, it didn't quite end there as I found out who it was in January, then June everyone at work started talking about rumours of her and my partner. Really long story.
Myself and my partner agreed a fresh start and he will always encouraging me to ask questions but there's something inside me which thinks well is he still seeing her? Is he parked at the back of her house? (I'm aware of where she lives) Is he sleeping over at her house? Have they even stopped at all? Has he just got better at lying?
Is this normal? Because my mind seems so be sabotaging this fresh start, although I appreciate it's because of his actions that have made my mind attempt to 'protect me' from more pain.
Thank you.
[This message edited by Sophielou at 11:41 AM, Tuesday, August 4th]
DDay:25th June 2025
Found out who it was-Jan 2026 and the cycle started again.
