Chasingsunsets (original poster new member #86112) posted at 2:12 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2026
How did you all handle the AP after you found out? I found out the messages and called her a f*ck*ng wh*r* and when she sent me an "apology" (more like trying to save her pathetic *ss) I told her to never contact me again. She begged me not to tell her husband…I did. Sometimes I wish I had sent her a message letting her know how much hurt and damage she caused to not only me, but my children too. Most of the time I think she’s not worth it. It’s been two years now so probably too late but I’m just wondering if any of you have reached out and regret it or think it’s better to say nothing. I know my husband never reached out again and cut her off on everything.
Carpenter81 ( new member #86784) posted at 12:26 PM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2026
I'm sorry, Chasing, I'm going to respond with my thoughts later today. Just wanted you to know that I was thinking about your situation and definitely sympathize with that dilemma/thoughts and regrets about how we all end up handling the AP... I'm sure many here can include lots of "this is how you DON'T handle it...", especially myself LOL.
