Positivethoughts (original poster new member #87707) posted at 6:01 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2026
Hi. I have literally never posted in any forum before. But I really feel like I need to chat to people who have experienced similar to me. Basically I found out my husband had an affair in October 2025, we are altering to reconcile and I want to, but I am really struggling with sadness, hurt, mental movies and social media obsessions. I feel like I still think about it 99% of the time. First thing of a morning, last thing at night. And I suppose I want to know if this is normal, or should I be getting better by now? I don’t want to feel like this forever, but don’t know how to stop 🥺
