Ctt2025 (original poster new member #86713) posted at 9:28 AM on Wednesday, September 30th, 2026
Hi All,
As part of reconciliation....we have both agreed to a list of things to work on for each other. One of the things I need to work on is a physical thing; it seems really innocuous but its related to shaving a beard off! Its been rationalised/justified as the beard was something I grew while we were working through things and it was not a great period (post affair).
I guess my question is whether its fair to ask someone to physically change something about themselves? I don't want to shave it off; I quite like it and it makes me feel good. On the other side I can see that my other half has strong feelings about it.
