Text Word History
I noticed on my Husband’s google history that he had looked up how to reset his iPhones text word history. Should I be concerned or is there a completely innocent reason to do this. We have been in a good place lately, but I will be suspicious forever. He did this when he was away on his yearly weeklong golf trip in Florida.
1 comment posted: Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Secret Email Account
I thought we were in the clear, so I stopped snooping. Then somehow the beautiful iCloud decided to help me. For some reason his Safari history synced with my phone one weekend. I happened to be downstairs looking at my phone and came upon a Find a Russian Bride in my history. I figured he had just clicked on some junk email but when I clicked on it his profile came up! Then I looked at the account info on the profile and he had used a secret email account. He used our dogs name! I hurried up and wrote as much info as I could down before he got off the phone and came downstairs. When I tried to open it later I was locked out. I have no idea what the password is to get into this aol email account. I would like to try some different passwords but I don’t want the account to lock up and notify him that someone is trying to access the account. I am afraid he would panic and shut down the account or erase everything. Any suggestions?
6 comments posted: Monday, April 8th, 2019
Bumble on my WH's Iphone
I looked at my WH's iPhone today and the Bumble app was on there. When I tried to open it, it said I needed to sign on with a Facebook account, so I don't think it has been used yet. I know he went to a bar this week and I wonder if he was drunk and put it on or maybe a woman there did. The only other thing that I wonder is that we share the iCloud with our daughter, who is living with us and 25, and I know she recently downloaded Bumble on her phone. A lot of times her contacts come up on our phones. Is that possible, or just wishful thinking on my part?
5 comments posted: Friday, October 13th, 2017
Var vs Gps
I am pretty sure my WH is up to his old ways. He travels for work all week and I track him on his iPhone, which he is aware of. He calls me every night at 10:00 pm and I see that he is in his hotel room, but I know that he could just leave his phone in his room and leave. He knows that I go to bed soon after and I don't call him again. He is in an earlier time zone. I thought about a gps tracker, but I don't want to pay a monthly fee, there is no way to hide this charge from him and it sounds too complicated. I thought that maybe I could buy a VAR at Best Buy or some place similar and just put that in his vehicle. Would it hold a long enough charge to last all week and would it give me times of the vehicle being turned on. I don't need to hear conversations, I just need to know if his vehicle is in use after 10:00. I hope this makes sense. I am very unfamiliar with these devices.
2 comments posted: Monday, September 11th, 2017
Using Old IPhone as Tracking Device
I recently bought my daughter a new iPhone and noticed that her old iphone4s still shows up on Find My IPhone App. My FWH travels all week and I am able to track him on find my iPhone, but I have always wondered if he just leaves his phone in his hotel room and takes off since he knows I track him. He is in a different time zone and he knows that after our nightly phone calls I go to bed and I never call him. The few times I have he has usually answered but a few times he hasn't and either says his phone was turned down or he was asleep. I figured I could hide it in his vehicle, but I have noticed that if it sits for too long without being used it starts showing as old location and doesn't update. I figured that I could get 3 or 4 days out of a full charge. What can I do to keep it active enough to keep showing on Find My IPhone?
2 comments posted: Friday, August 12th, 2016
2 Google Accounts?
My FWH has a Google Account through his work. I have gone to YouTube on his work computer before and signed on so I can see his YouTube History. I secretly got on his work laptop this weekend to look at his YouTube history again and said there are 2 Google accounts, one that is work managed and one that is a personal account?! Has he opened up a separate personal account? Why would he do this? Could he have a secret email account through this? I have to be careful because it sent a warning to his phone that someone had tried to sign on to the account with the wrong password. I deleted that email on his phone before he could see it. Is this something that Google could have set up on their own, is it a glitch? I am trying to give him the benefit of a doubt. I think he knows that I have looked at the original account, so did he set up another one to hide his YouTube viewing? I could live with that, just not a secret email account! Any advice???
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5 comments posted: Monday, May 9th, 2016
iPhone Web Data Question
My WH has a company iPhone and I have one through our family. We share an iCloud account and our phones are synced, so when I look at my Safari history, his shows up too.
My question is does that mean that when I go to Settings>Safari>Advanced>Web Data on his phone is that also shared?
I clear my cookies and history quite often and he obviously doesn't know that you can't just clear the browser history, you need to go to settings to clear web data.
I know this is rambling but his number one thing on web data is m.yahoomail and he is not supposed to have a yahoo account!! He used to have one when he was cheating years ago before he had this phone. I took control of the yahoo account and I check it from my device every couple of months. He doesn't have the password or answers to the security questions anymore. Does this mean he has opened up a new secret email account?!?! Or is this because I check yahoo mail from my phone?
3 comments posted: Tuesday, August 25th, 2015
Question for Someone That is Computer Savvy
I used to be able to go on my WH's laptop, go to tools, Internet Options, and view his history with details. It would list the website and the time he was on. It was hundreds of lines of detail. When I go to it now, there is barely anything there. It may have just a line or two per day. I know that it won't show if he is in Private Browsing mode, but when I look at his browsing history he is going to all kinds of sites and they aren't showing up. They are completely innocent sites so I know he isn't deliberately trying to hide these. Is there something I can do in the settings to get that level of detail back?
5 comments posted: Tuesday, August 18th, 2015
Need Different Way to Track WH
My FWH works out of town Monday through Friday. He knows that I can track him with his IPhone, ever since I caught him going to a strip club last year and lying about it. I need a different way to track him during the week because he can just leave his phone in his hotel room late at night. He knows that I never call him and I don't want to have to call him every night just to check. If I do that, he will know something is up. Is there something I can put on his vehicle to track him? I can't pay any kind of monthly fee because he gets all the credit card bills.
4 comments posted: Thursday, August 6th, 2015
LinkedIn Question
In the past, I was able to log into my WH's LinkedIn account and see who he has viewed. We have had some arguments about women he has connected with that have nothing to do with his industry and that are extremely attractive. He claimed that he "accidentally" connected with them!
Today, when I logged into his account, the profiles recently visited are no longer there. The home page looks a lot different. Is this something LinkedIn has changed or is there an option that he took of hiding his visits from me?
3 comments posted: Thursday, February 26th, 2015
