Me: 37 and awesome Him: 42 and not so awesome OW1: 47 and desperate OW2: 34, freshly divorced, was once my friend OW3: is OW1 who took in WH during seperation.

Verizon alerts?

So, in the aftermath of hell, I took to logging into our Verizon account to keep myself informed of his contacts, who he texts, and what numbers he is calling/texting frequently. One of the features that I signed up for a LONG time ago was the messaging center, where I could actually see his texts on his phone, current, as they were happening. As long as he didn't delete them. Well, the other day I went to log in, and wouldn't you know.... he got a text from verizon, apparently telling him that someone was trying to access the account from an unknown IP address. Well there are problems with that lie... as our IP address hasn't changed, and I was able to successfully log into the account at that time, not one "failed" or blocked attempt. So... is it possible that he has set the account to notify him when ANYONE logs into the account? I wasn't sure if this was a feature of verizon, although it would make sense if they offer it. How do I get around this? If I go in to turn that feature off (if it exists, which i am 90% sure does) he would be notified when I go into the account, and he would be able to check what I have done....What is anyones advice?

[This message edited by befuzzled110 at 7:15 AM, December 6th (Sunday)]

9 comments posted: Sunday, December 6th, 2015

Just joined the 21st century Verizon question.

We just got smart phones. Our first ones. I have WH convinced, for the moment to use only the text provided by the phone company we use. I am able to view his texts online for now. Unless he deletes them from his phone. Is there a way online to restore his texts, or is it only through his phone settings that is possible? We have Samsung S5's, if that makes a difference.

7 comments posted: Sunday, November 30th, 2014