Newest Member: Imthecheater


BS - Me 47 WS - Her 45 ( she's a childhood sexual abuse survivor) DDAY -#1- June 2012/ #2 -June 2015 / #3-August 2015 Married 25yrs. 2kids She had 2 affairs with two different men. Status: divorced.

I'm stuck on moving forward

It's been 4yrs since separation, 3 years since divorce was final. I've dated and had very short relationships. Had problems having sex because of ED (mostly psychological) but I'll explain. I feel like moving forward would be betraying my kids, our little family and it's hard for me to envision myself with anyone at the moment.

My ex moved on quickly with the guy she cheated with and then another man now that moved in with her currently and has been with for the last 2yrs. The kids were in shock since the cheating and divorce and then her being with someone full time so I held back, so the kids could always have one parent to go to. At least one parent that would grieve with them and had stability. My kids are grown and on their own, but I still struggle with this a lot. Of course I don't want to be alone forever and long for a loving relationship. Especially cause I'm all alone now. I date someone for a little bit and then when it goes into the direction of a relationship, I usually run. :(

Anyone out there felt this way or have any words of encouragement?

14 comments posted: Saturday, July 6th, 2019

Calls not appearing on bill. Help

She's made some calls recently and has dialed *67 to block her number as well as blocked it from within the phone. The strange thing is that it appeared once on the bill and never again. Granted, they both have iPhones and AT&T, but it won't appear? I called AT&T and they couldn't answer this.

Does anyone know anything about this? Trying to prove something here.

10 comments posted: Wednesday, May 27th, 2015

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