Newest Member: Confused10


Me: 51 BS
Married 19 years
Dday1: 8/1/2012 ( followed by multiple Ddays)
D-day2( AP#2):Easter-April 12 , 2020
4kids(18,16, 13, 8) + 2 grown Step kids I love like my own

Song about reconciliation after infidelity?

Anyone have a great song about surviving infidelity? Or about making it through tough times?

37 comments posted: Thursday, February 2nd, 2023

20th Aniversary


It’s been a while since I’ve posted. Our marriage has survived two long term affairs. The first was in 2012 and lasted about 6 months and the most recent was in 2019-20. It lasted about 9 mos.

He seems to have had some sort of epiphany after this last affair. I’ll never completely trust him, but he seems to be trying really hard to be extra loving, kind, and attentive. I have also done my best to improve any of the things that I’ve done to contribute to any marital problems.

Anyway, he seems very excited about our 20th anniversary coming up, but I’m not sure if I feel it’s been 20 years. I mean he left me after I discovered each of the affairs. He stayed away several months each time, so does it really count as a 20th anniversary? Should I go ahead and go along with it anyway? Should the anniversary clock reset when he leaves and comes back? I mean I left my job after 10 years and came back and they reset the clock. 🤷‍♀️
My question is does this count as 20 years married or should we be celebrating 1 year back together?
I feel like we’ve had three separate marriages.
1 - before infidelity
2- after affair #1
3- now after affair 2

13 comments posted: Sunday, October 24th, 2021

Help find owner of phone number


Does anyone know how I can find out the owner of a phone number?

Thanks for any help that you are able to offer.

4 comments posted: Tuesday, April 14th, 2020

How can I recover deleted FB posts?

How can I recover deleted FB messanger messages?

5 comments posted: Wednesday, October 11th, 2017

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