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crushedgrapes

Me BS Age 53 Him WH Age 52 DDay Aug 8 0214 DS32 & DS21 Married 24 yrs, together 31yrs

Facebook search question

I have used my Facebook account to look up the OW and her husband. For some reason when I enter a letter in the top search bar and hit search her name and picture shows up ( along with other people with the same initial)

THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!

I have deleted my searches but it keeps coming back as if the activity has been memorized. I have also deleted the activity log. I have the highest security settings possible, so I am confused and frustrated as to why this is happening.

I don't know if I need to delete the account and start again or what to do.

Has any one else had this experience?Can someone please advise me as to what to do??

4 comments posted: Wednesday, January 20th, 2016

get info from old Blackberry

Wh has an old Blackberry that I'm pretty sure was in use to contact OW ( before I had any idea)

The media card has been removed and when I fired it up it still required a password. I feel there may be info on here that I'd like to have access to. WH has been very sparse in giving me real info about the A. To me things don't add up and I'm trusting my gut on this one.

I'm looking for any technical help I can get.!

0 comment posted: Tuesday, May 5th, 2015

looking for help

I'm looking for anyone who may be going to the Kentucky Derby in May.

I have suspicions re WH and OW.

PM if you think you can help.

0 comment posted: Wednesday, April 8th, 2015

where to put Var ??

I've got a VAR I want to put in WH's SUV and I'm looking for suggestions.

I'm hoping someone can help me.

I don't know if it should go under the passengers seat, in the dash or if there is another hiding spot that will pick up phone conversations.

WH spends a lot of time in his vehicle and throws things in the back seat ect. so I'm counting on someone's previous experience!!

3 comments posted: Tuesday, March 10th, 2015

Help! Evernote app is driving me crazy

Hi SI Investigators, any help would be appreciated.

Both my WH and I have the Evernote app.. Mine on an Iphone he has a Blackberry Z30. The app looks completely different on the Blackberry and I'm having a hard time manouvering around!!

I'd like to find out if WH is using any of the features of this app ie: WorkChat to contact OW. I cant locate the app "settings" on his Blackberry to see what's activated. I know the app has access to his photos so I'd like to find out if WH is sending pics and or notes. I can't seem to find a History setting either.

Also, if the Workchat or SnapChat activity would show up on a search.?

Can anyone help me please?

0 comment posted: Friday, February 27th, 2015

Fyi double verification gmail & Evernote Chat

I've recently experienced double verification gmail.

First you enter a password then google texts or emails you a separate numerical verification code to access the account content.

It also allows you to choose which devices you can access the gmail account from ( ie: cell phone only or a specific computer) Tricky!! even if you havethe first password you may not be able to get in to the account.

Also, I use the Evernote App as a password storage app. They have now introduced Evernote Chat, which I believe does not show up under regular text or email search. Does any one have experience w this?? Also, tricky!!

0 comment posted: Wednesday, December 3rd, 2014

found another email..need help

Hi just found WH's other email address on his blackberry. It's gmail and requires a password...

I don't know how long he's had it. It's possible it's old and not in use, I've never seen it before now.

How can I find out anything about this email??

Is it active? ( I don't want to send an email from my account for obvious reasons)

Would love to crack the password!!! We have an Ipad at the house. I don't have access to his office computer. I doubt he uses this email from the home computer.

Looking for suggestions please.

8 comments posted: Monday, November 24th, 2014

need help with linkedin

Hi. WH has linkedin which have discovered password for.

It seems like there is lots of info on here, but I'm not sure exactly what I can get... I can see that the OW has visited his site in the last 2 weeks ( total violation of NC)

Any tips on what I should look for?

10 comments posted: Saturday, November 1st, 2014

Private investigaters

Hi. I'd be interested to hear what type of experiences others have had with PI's.

What to expect of the amount of info they found. Was it worth the cost? What types of questions should I ask?

Your feed back would be helpful. Tks

6 comments posted: Friday, October 31st, 2014

need advice..ok,here goes

Ok,this is my first post on this forum.

I am trying to determine if there is still contact between my WH and the OW. I have few details of the A. Most contact was by email and phone. She lives far away from us. The day after I discovered proof on his Iphone he came home w a Blackberry Z30.

I find it difficult to manouver around the Z30 and even though I have the password, I haven't found any further evidence.

(1) I could use tips on how to look for contact on his phone. He may be deleting everything IE: calls and emails. ( I knew my way around the Iphone since that's what I use, but not the Z30)

(2) I do not have access to his work computer, so that's a dark area for me. It's possible that's where all contact is going on. WH could have other email addresses that I don't know about, burner phone etc. WH also, spends a lot of time in his vehicle and I've thought of a var.

(3) I do have access to his linkedin account, but he doesn't seem to use it much. What type of info can I get from Linkedin??

(4) WH has a fb account but doesnt use it either( as far as I can tell)

I'm not very tech savvy.

I'm looking for advice on any way that I can find proof.

7 comments posted: Friday, October 31st, 2014

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