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zxcvbnm

DDay: 7/29/15

Help with Craigslist

WS had a habit of going on Craigslist and posting ads to meet his APs. Since DDay he has traveled a bit and when I'm feeling really down sometimes I search in whatever city he is visiting and see if I can find an ad that sounds like him (I know, I shouldn't go down that rabbit hole but I get sucked in sometimes). I just looked at our local city and found one that I know I've read before. I can't remember which city I read it in (He only travels to 3 different cities) but I know I haven't read it in our local one. I googled some of the key phrases but nothing came up. I am 100% sure that I have read this listing before. So my questions:

1. How long do posts stay on Craigslist if they haven't been deleted by the person who posts them?

2. Is there way to set up a notification if that same post is posted in a different city?

6 comments posted: Wednesday, November 2nd, 2016

Someone trying to get into my Gmail?

After DDay I took over his secret email accounts and changed the passwords (there were 5 of them!). I set one of them up so that my personal email is the backup for it, for if I forgot the password or something. Today I got the following email:

Dear Google User,

This email address is being used to recover a Google account. If you initiated the recovery process, it is asking you to enter the numeric verification code that appears below.

If you did not initiate an account recovery process and have a Google account associated with this email address, it is possible that someone else is trying to access your account. Do not forward or give this code to anyone. Please visit your account's sign-in & security settings to ensure your account is safe.

I actually got this email twice, 3 minutes apart. DH swears it wasn't him, and I was sitting next to him when I got them. However, I know he has found ways around this before and I'm on alert because he is traveling next week to a city where he had a lot of contacts with women in this email account. I sarcastically asked him if he thought it was OW, but we haven't heard from her in almost a year and I don't know why she would suddenly be trying to hack into his account. The last I heard from her, she was going to counseling and didn't want contact with us (the situation was strange, because he lied to her too and she didn't know I existed so she was understandably very upset with him).

Anyway, is there a way to see any information about who tried to change the password or even an area of the country where it came from?

[This message edited by zxcvbnm at 7:33 PM, July 25th (Monday)]

9 comments posted: Monday, July 25th, 2016

Help with incognito mode and gmail accounts

I'm pretty sure I already know the answer to this but I'm going to ask just in case... Is there any way to find secret gmail accounts? In the past, WS was super tricky and had a bunch of secret gmail accounts. He only used them in incognito mode, so they never showed up in his history and he didn't have to worry about deleting anything. He also had google voice, so when he closed the window, no texts would show up and nothing showed up on the phone bills.

I can't do a keylogger because its a work computer and phone. Is there anything I'm missing that would tell me if he still uses secret accounts?

1 comment posted: Friday, April 15th, 2016

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