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36yearsgone

If you are absent during my struggles, don't expect to be present in my success.

The Posom was arrested this week. Woo Hoo!

It finally happened! The POSOM was arrested. This is the day I’ve been waiting to see for almost 4 years.

I was contacted by police earlier today and they told me they were calling me as I was one of several different men that he had prescription medication pill bottles for. This included my heart medication from back in 2017 (probably what he planned on tainting to do me in).

He was arrested in a DV incident on Tuesday where he severely beat up a married woman he was screwing. She called the police from his home (he was living with another woman) after he struck her with his fists and feet. When the police arrived, they noticed narcotics in plain sight. They arrested him, got a warrant and performed a search.

I explained that he did not get my meds from me, but had allegedly planned to do away with me, which could explain why he was in possession of my meds. They are going to do a lab test on all the meds to see if he tainted any of them.

He’s going to prison, hopefully.

I feel outstanding today.

26 comments posted: Wednesday, July 7th, 2021

I went too far this time

As many of you know, the closer we get to affair season the more we get into SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder), the more our mood and stress levels change. It happens to me pretty much from May (the month my son died) through September (when D-day happened.) I don’t know about you, but I get touchy during this season.

Back in April, due to my rapidly declining vision, I decided to buy a new car; I wanted something that had collision avoidance, a lane drift alert system and other safety features.

After taking delivery, I decided I wanted to get custom plates. So, I ordered plates. I asked my wife to watch for their arrival in the mail so I could switch them out. They finally arrived. She didn’t tell me. Instead, she put them on her car; this is illegal. When I noticed my plates on her car, I asked her what the heck she was doing. She told me she liked my plates better than the one she had. I don’t mean to demean blondes, but she is the stereotype of the old blonde jokes (I do not believe blondes are less intelligent than anyone else).

I explained that her actions were illegal and could get her arrested. She told me she really wanted a vanity plate…

Here’s where I went too far… I went online to order a custom plate, but discovered that the plate containing the word CHEATER was either unavailable or impermissible. Darn.

I really went too far when I discovered that her POSOM’s name was available. So, I ordered the plate with his name and an S on the end to show ownership.

The you know what has hit the fan.

In your opinion, did I go too far?

58 comments posted: Friday, June 25th, 2021

Is there a stigma attached to being cheated on?

Looking back over the past four years I came to the conclusion that there seems to be less of a stigma on the cheater than there is on the betrayed. Has this been your experience?

23 comments posted: Friday, June 25th, 2021

I didn’t think I could ever be surprised again

Last week, my FWW, received a call from a female friend of ours in the Pacific Northwest asking if she could come out and stay with us for a few days because she had separated from her husband. We’ve known this couple for nearly 30-years, so naturally my wife said yes.

It seems that this woman is having an affair with some guy who treats her better than her husband does, but wait, this isn’t the typical cheating scenario. This couple, whom I have always known to be loyal, strait-laced and monogamous got involved in some stuff I can’t begin to image, at least as it applies to them.

Her husband talked her into swinging as a couple, as individuals and her as a sex partner with another woman. They would too bars and he would sell her to others for $200. During these sexcapades, she met a man who stated that he wanted to be her protector. She told me that she needs a man who will protect her from the crap she’s been doing, so she is thinking of making the split permanent.

Her husband showed up a few days later and they left our home, choosing to stay in a hotel instead. I am supposed to go out to dinner with them tonight to talk about their plight.

SI, I am at a complete loss as to what to do or say. I hate infidelity and I refuse to stay in a friend relationship with people who are actively cheating. If you could call it cheating.

There is more to say, but in the limited time I have before going out to dinner, I could use some advice from you. I know I can’t make their problem my problem to solve, but damn it, I have cared about these people for years. Any advice you provide will be much appreciated. I don’t trust my FWW to give them good counsel and I don’t trust that I can get through the evening with them without coming across as harsh. Help!

37 comments posted: Tuesday, June 8th, 2021

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