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Tallgirl

Legally separated, one more step.

Online Divorce Service experience?

I have a formal separation document and I am thinking of using an online divorce service. Any experiences good or bad? How would you rate it?

I am in Canada but I imagine the services are comparable every where.

Thanks for sharing.

2 comments posted: Saturday, June 5th, 2021

What does your dog sneak and either digest or destroy

So I just pried a white mushroom the size of my fist out of my dogs mouth. My son asked what I was doing. This sucker was HUGE and she had it well hidden.

My dog eats so much stuff it blows my mind.

She eats poop (hers and her playmates), soap bars, shoes Kleenex, paper towels, random paper, the mail, novels, steak, raw and cooked, moisturizer, socks, underwear, bras, glasses, bread, food wrappers, measuring cups, pillows with stuffing, purses, slippers, logs and sticks, tree branches, loves tulips, I no longer have any house plants, my hand weights, bananas by the bunch, lemons, onions, all things plastic, towels.... there is more. And anything left anywhere. She loves tidbits.

And believe it or not. I never feed her from the table. She steals everything. And she knows when it is dinner to the minute.

I guess I am busy.

How does your dog keep you busy...

[This message edited by Tallgirl at 4:03 PM, May 28th (Friday)]

25 comments posted: Friday, May 28th, 2021

How did you feel when you took your first legal step?

Well today I signed the legal separation agreement. I chose this. I knew it was coming. I couldn’t live with a cheater. And yet I am not overjoyed, not elated, not feeling satisfied.

It came with more of a sad relief. End of the youthful dream life I guess.

I also found some documents I should not of read. I know better but I read a few anyways. Confirmed he is an outstanding liar. The betrayal knife still goes to the quick. When I don’t care, it will be a relief.

Next step. Buy him out and divorce.

Maybe it will get easier when he moves thousands of miles away in 2 weeks.

Here we go, the next phase. On my own. I will be ok. I will.

24 comments posted: Monday, May 10th, 2021

Valentine’s Day kinda sucks.

I truly hate this day.

Happy Valentines!

13 comments posted: Sunday, February 14th, 2021

Pandemic and depression

I already knew depression is common, but since the pandemic it seems to be in most households.

I’d love to get your ideas on how to see lightness and joy these days.

My young adult sons are struggling and it is hard to help. Harder yet to watch.

20 comments posted: Wednesday, January 27th, 2021

Selling the marital home

My stxwh just informed me That he may Want to buy me out of the marital home. What a dick.

He changes his mind every minute.

What are the challenges to this, other than agreeing on fair market value.

I hate hate the idea of him in this neighborhood when I can’t afford it.

Has anyone had this? Any good out of it?

3 comments posted: Tuesday, August 11th, 2020

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