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Other Peoples Affairs causing tension

Wondering if anyone can relate to this….

My husband recently told me about two coworkers who were having an affair with each other… while I appreciate the honestly from him and him being open and honest about the happenings at his work it caused major tension between us.

Him telling me the story triggered me I think… I told
Him I thought the people were disgusting and hearing things about his coworkers makes me question the morals of the people who work there. He works for a huge company with hundreds of staff and there seems be affairs all the time. I can’t relate as I work for a small company with no men so there is nothing ever like that happening around me.

I wonder for him if it feels less shocking because he has cheated, because it happens so much. But for whatever the reason it doesn’t seem to bother him like it does me. He always says it’s other peoples lives not ours. Which I get but it still bugs me.

In general, since the affair, how do others handle hearing about other peoples affairs? Especially people you know.

7 comments posted: Wednesday, September 21st, 2022

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