Married 1995DDY 1 EA lasted a few years I knew the whole time a swept it under the rug.DD2 July 11, 2019Trying to R but tired of the lies.DD3 8/31/20 Didn't get over the anger/ hurt fast enough for him so he decided to go back to her. Divorce finalized J
Recovering deleted texts Android
Other than Dr. Fone and fonelab what are good recovery apps? Those are the two that used when I needed them. My friend is asking now what to use and I wanted to check here if there was something new or better. Thank you in advance!
0 comment posted: Tuesday, August 24th, 2021
Right after the papers are signed
In the week since the hearing and the judge signing the papers, I thought I was getting somewhere. Then out of left field you get hit with unsuspected things that just blow everything up. My XWH has a business with his brother and sister. I have always been involved but as part of the dissolution I signed off the business for other considerations. They always have a final get together to get ready for taxes, etc.. this has always been held at our house, which is now my house. My XBIL and XSIL have been very supportive of me and said no matter what I am part of their family.
Well the talk of the meeting came up so taxes can be done. I said they could still meet here too go through everything. I had text my XBIL to tell him my X wanted to meet this Sunday. He said he would talk to my x and thanked me. Well today I find out that he text my X and said that the meeting should be at his house because I am not part of the business anymore so I shouldn't know anything.
I am well aware that I am no longer part of a lot of things, I don't need anyone to point it out to me. It felt like someone punched me right in the stomach. I guess when people know the he** we have gone through up to this point that they would cut some slack but I guess it's open season with me as the target...
Sorry for the book I just don't understand people.
10 comments posted: Friday, January 29th, 2021
Recovering deleted texts Android
I have never had any luck recovering deleted Android texts or pictures. What is the best way to go about recovering those items? Thank you.
1 comment posted: Saturday, January 23rd, 2021
Hearing in 4 days from now
The dissolution hearing is set for Friday. Trying to deal with the last minute pleas of let's cancel the hearing, I don't want to be divorced... Well I didn't want a spouse that repeatedly ran after someone else while letting me know that I had no value, wasn't attractive, never made him happy... you know how that goes! Now I am just supposed to believe that I am the center of his world... I may not be the brightest light bulb in the pack but really.....
The dissolution will go on as scheduled. I deserve security in at least the financial front. I don't know what the future holds for me but I do know that I deserve to have solid ground to stand on and then I can evaluate which way to go from there. Here's to reaching that solid ground!
16 comments posted: Monday, January 18th, 2021
Apparently there is a time limit on healing from their affairs
Last year my WH at 61 let me know that he was having an affair with a 19 year old at work. I immediately told him to get out. But after wishing with a therapist decided to try to work through it and save the marriage. However, at every turn she kept popping back up. At the same time my mom was having serious health issues and I was taking care of her. The whole time I felt like he wasn't being honest and was still hiding things from me so the hurt and anger wasn't going away. I discovered a 2nd burner phone that he was using to talk with her on 8/31. It's been all down hill from there. She is the love of his life, he has moved out to be with her but he still loves me and is going to take care of me..... on top of all of that my mom died on 9/28 & I am on my way to the oncologist to get test results to see if I have cancer. I don't know how much one person can take at a time!!!! Sorry for the rant just needed to get it out!
51 comments posted: Wednesday, October 28th, 2020