Ways to restore the way you look at WS
My son is so much happier now that i have made the decision to reconcile.
The pain of a D was making me feel like a bad mother. My shift of my mind into a positive place to see WS in a new light has been life changing for both of us.
I'm curious to know what helped people with this shift. There were two main things for me, but if there are more stories I'd love to hear them.
1) being intimate
2) saying affirmations to eachother
2 comments posted: Friday, November 28th, 2025
Should i tell my child?
I found out 3 months ago about my husband having an affair.
I am still shocked that he has done this to me and my son. I am going through so much saddness and anger, but mainly worry about our family and what this means for us. The affair is over but I cannot ever forgive this action
My son is 14. Should I tell him? He often sees i am upset. He is aware of hushed conversations. I don't want to lie because then I am a bad mum?
Anyone with experience here of this?
2 comments posted: Monday, January 20th, 2025