"I love you" to AP
It's been roughly 4 weeks since DDay. I've been getting the trickle truth. It all began 2 years ago with an employee of his and a timeline that span over roughly 4 months. I just got him to admit that he told the AP that he loved her and she said it to him. He will only admit to an EA but when he told me that he told her he loved her it confirmed to me what I already knew it was also a PA. Has anyone ever experienced this and actually found out later that it wasn't a PA? Also some of my information that I already knew was confirmed by his former coworker that I called during my investigation. I am thinking about moving towards divorcing but at the same time I want the full disclosure so I can move on with closure. Also I want to reach out to some other former coworkers to get a better picture. Does anyone recommend this? I reached out to the AP on DDay and it went totally wrong. I asked her if she was still sleeping with my husband and she said that she was married and hung up. She has since blocked me and wouldn't answer his call either when I made him call her in front of me. I am still at the finding the truth stage and I want it either way if I stay or leave.
9 comments posted: Wednesday, May 14th, 2025
