Husband admitted my weight is a major factor why he cheated
I'm a 33 year old wife and the mom of 2 kids. My husband is 31. The Sunday before last he admitted he cheated on me with a friend from the gym, a 45 year old woman who never had kids.
My husband confessed they have been talking for weeks, allegedly mostly about health and fitness. He said on that day, he was coming in the gym and she had just finished her workout. Instead of going to do his workout, she invited him to have lunch with her. He said after lunch they ended up in her home.
This maybe poor judgement on my part but I wanted to see what this woman looks like. He showed me her Instagram. Given how fit she looks, I asked my husband if my weight had anything to do with the cheating. He said yes.
In their Instagram message exchanges, it was mostly talk about health and fitness. But their was some definite flirting. I'm heartbroken and embarrassed.
10 comments posted: Tuesday, January 27th, 2026
