Husband emotionally cheated and I’m pregnant

I (34F) and my husband (39M) been together for 11 years and married for 2. I found out 2 weeks ago he was talking to an onlyfans model privately using other chats over past 5 months. Telling her he loves her and that she’s the most beautiful woman in the world, etc. Sending her 1000s of dollars in exchange for pics and videos and lying about it. After I confronted him, he has since cut off contact with this person but was angry I snooped into his stuff. Says this is first time he ever did something like this. He says he is sorry and would never do this again and is okay to attending couples therapy. I was contemplating leaving him or trying couples therapy. Then I found out 2 days ago that I’m 6 weeks pregnant. This feels like a sick joke. I wake up in panic at night. My husband and I have different religious backgrounds but both religions are strongly against abortion. I’ve been pro-choice. However, when it comes to my choice, I feel bad at even considering aborting because I don’t know if I have the right to make that decision right now or if I should try to work it out with my husband. Before all this came out, we were both interested in considering having a baby and therefore were going unprotected. I just feel so lost. I haven’t told either family because that will skew everything and be more strong opinions. These have been the worst few weeks of my life and I’ve not had an easy life. Please help me

3 comments posted: Sunday, March 8th, 2026