Found texts, he said he didn’t go through with it
I have permission to go on my husband of 20+ years’ phone. Found some flirty texts with a girl who gave him her number at a restaurant. She also texted him a sexy pic. Also found an email
He sent inquiring to an escort for a business trip he was going to be going on. I couldn’t find evidence that anything came of it, and he swears up and down he never went through with anything. I keep telling myself is possible that’s true, that I caught him in the first attempts. I never thought this would be my life. But I also keep trying to tell myself if nothing "happened" it’s not the big deal I’m making it. He’s not the calculating, secretive type, so this shocked me. Both of these situations, especially the sexy texts, he claims he doesn’t remember the details (it was about 6months ago). I want so bad to believe him but am on the struggle bus.
5 comments posted: Thursday, April 23rd, 2026
