WS silence drives me crazy
I found out about the cheating 8 months ago, my husband (WS) maintained contact with AP behind my back so I was very determined to get a divorce. However, 6 months later, when he moved out, I got hit with extreme anxiety and depression. At first, I was able to function and feel better by talking to friends and working out, but it got so much worse that I can barely function. out of desperate move, I asked him to move back last week. He has always been nice to me, he said he doesn't want a divorce and he promised he has finally cut contact with other women, so I thought maybe I should consider reconciliation. However, he still doesn't want to talk about the affair, and refuse to communicate his real thoughts, and with my anxiety it makes me crazy when I have to beg him to talk and yet he would only squeeze out a few words. other than the affair, he'd be nice to me, and talk to me like nothing happened, he'd watch TV together and be there when I have anxiety or depression episodes. I honestly don't know what to do, I feel I'm stuck and every min of my life is meaningless and I'm just throwing away my life. Any thoughts or suggestions? anything would help.
1 comment posted: Wednesday, April 22nd, 2026
