I think I’m married to a narcissist who’s a sex addict
At first, I thought I had found the love of my life — the most caring and mindful person I’d ever met. We got married pretty fast, just nine months after meeting each other. But as soon as we got married, everything started to change — and fast.
He became controlling and sometimes even violent, especially when it comes to our sex life. He believes I’m obligated to fulfill all his needs simply because I’m his wife — all the time. Some of the things he asks for make me really uncomfortable, but whenever I say no, I get the same response: "You’re my wife, it’s your duty."
I’ve tried my best to make things work, but no matter what I do, he’s never satisfied. Recently, he’s been spending more time out with his friends — something he never used to do — and I started to get suspicious.
Out of insecurity and fear, I checked him on DoTheySwipe… and it turns out he’s on Tinder, with a profile that looks very recent. It hit me like lightning — my husband is literally looking for someone else, probably to fulfill his sexual needs.
I haven’t confronted him yet because I don’t even know how to start. I don’t want a divorce — I always believed I’d never have to go through that in my life — but at the same time, I can’t just ignore this.
What do I even do now?
4 comments posted: Tuesday, May 5th, 2026
