Jaime. Traveling a new uncharted path.
It’s been 5 days.
Sept 18 I finally discovered what the "hints" my husband of 26 years, together for 31, has been leaving my were really about.
In the seat of daughter’s car (she is in studying in Europe this semster) I found a wrapper for the generic cialis, cash, and a go pro camera. What I found on that camera were 4 videos of my husband with sex workers performing various acts on my husband. One of which was just from the day before. Weeks earlier I had found text messages on his phone and seemed to be between him and other sex workers, but nothing specifically sexual.
Im just so sad and gutted. I don’t know how to proceed. My husband is seemingly devastated, and I know he was looking for me to find out. I’m just trying to start figuring out life now.
We have three children, the youngest two in college and the oldest working his professional job and studying for law school. I haven’t told anyone and I don’t know if I will. I’ve reached out to some local support groups. But I feel like a shell of myself.
1 comment posted: Monday, September 21st, 2026
