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it's been a couple of days since D-day, I told my BP about my cheating, texting other people and sending pictures that occurred during the beginning of our relationship that lasted for 3 months, i kept it hidden but decided to tell bc I didn't want them to live in a lie anymore but mainly i them out of fear after they had told me about a coworker telling BP about another cheating situation and to make their own decision about whether to stay together or not we decided to rebuild/reconcile, yesterday they sent a text message about if i was telling the full truth they're willing to work this out but if i wasn't then they would rather be left alone, to tell you the truth there's some details i left out, trickling down the truth and im going to tell that today when we meet up today in person, they're likely not wanting to hear it idk i just feel like telling them is the right thing to do and that its completely over. There was no excuse for me hiding that info for so long or even cheating while in a serious relationship (together for 1 yr and a couple of months, friends before dating) some advice would help, i found this website a while ago and decided to give it a try (never married but was proposed to) the only people that know about this situation is my family so right now no one else knows and my parents about seeing a family friend who's a psychist.

2 comments posted: Thursday, October 29th, 2026