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cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 3:17 PM on Sunday, January 18th, 2009
Bump
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
Finallyawake ( member #21554) posted at 4:04 PM on Sunday, January 18th, 2009
On my own and a better man for it
browneyesblue ( member #21810) posted at 5:35 PM on Sunday, January 18th, 2009
Me: BS 41
Him: WS 49
Married 6 yrs, together 9 years
2 children, 4.5 yrs & 21 months
DDAY 08/16/08, but kept quiet for 2.5 weeks until I could gather all my evidence. I confronted him on 9/3/08 - he admitted everything, even more than I knew.
roomtoheal ( member #21736) posted at 5:43 PM on Sunday, January 18th, 2009
My birthday was 12/18. It wasn't the greatest this year so close to D-day but at least it was after him coming out of the fog.
Thanks for asking cuz my favorite day of the year has always been my b-day.
Me:BS 45
Him:FWS 49
D~Day 11/13/08
LIMBOLAND
“♣The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive if they choose to but do not forget ♣.”
Thomas S. Szasz
9years ( member #21212) posted at 5:57 PM on Sunday, January 18th, 2009
islandgrl ( member #22010) posted at 6:27 AM on Monday, January 19th, 2009
May 29 
Me: BS (47)Him: WS (47) Together: 28 years Kids: 3 boys
suspected Aug 08, C Day: Dec.6,2008 OW - skanky co-worker "just friends"
Broken NC: many times(last attempt Aug 7,2010-no reply from OW)
getting there....
Want2help ( member #20547) posted at 2:13 AM on Friday, January 23rd, 2009
January 29th! One week to go for me!
FBS/WS- me.
F(serial)WS/BS- him.
Madhatters. More Ddays than birthdays, at this point. His OC, my OC...
UPDATE: Divorcing after almost 20 years.
icantcope ( member #18652) posted at 4:27 AM on Friday, January 23rd, 2009
March 23 for me
big horn ram. We head butt everything out of the way
Half empty or Half full it is still Half
hope4tomorrow ( member #21673) posted at 6:17 PM on Friday, January 23rd, 2009
Me BW
Him WH-SA
Married 12 years
3 Beautiful girls 8 and under
So painful ( member #18167) posted at 6:19 PM on Friday, January 23rd, 2009
Me: BS - 57
Him: WH - 59
Status: Uncertain
cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 1:59 PM on Sunday, January 25th, 2009
Bump
And had to giggle at the google ad...it was for a Karate Birthday Party. 
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
foxglove ( member #21791) posted at 5:37 PM on Sunday, January 25th, 2009
Me (BS) 57
XH (WS)
Married 21 years
Divorced 2/19/07
Two grown sons
Remarried 9/18
cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 2:12 PM on Sunday, February 1st, 2009
Bump
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 7:19 PM on Sunday, February 8th, 2009
Bump
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
wishingitwasnt ( member #20380) posted at 9:10 PM on Sunday, February 8th, 2009
gimmeechocolate ( member #22704) posted at 1:58 AM on Monday, February 9th, 2009
BS: Me, 37
WS: Him, 37
Married 10 years
2 Kids, 7 and 4
D Day 1: Sept. 16 2008 (after over a year of gaslighting)
EA (no PA as far as i know)for almost 2 years
False R:09/16/08-10/31/
Reconciling 10/31/08- now
D-Day 2: Feb. 24: Long Term EA/PA
island_girl ( member #22616) posted at 2:03 AM on Monday, February 9th, 2009
Oct 30 - I'm ever so bewitching 
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi
flawedbuthuman ( member #22389) posted at 2:05 AM on Monday, February 9th, 2009
November 19th...a Scorpio at it's best (and worst!!).
WS (me) 38
BH 48
Together 10 years
Married 8 1/2
4 Incredible Kids
D-Day - 1/3/09
Biggest wake-up call of my life!
brightbeauty ( member #22646) posted at 2:07 AM on Monday, February 9th, 2009
brightbeauty - Dec 22
darkbeast - Jan 12
Me-BS
Him-FWS,Darkbeast
Married-13years
2 Children-10&3
6 year affair
DDay-March 19-21,2008
RDay-March 21,2008
Psalms 31:10,14-15
Ballzlady ( member #22339) posted at 2:33 AM on Monday, February 9th, 2009
May 23
Just do IT. God has your back.
BS - me 41,WH-38,heartless twat-24
D-day 6/5/08
M-14yrs;filed for D 1/29/09
unfortunate baby girl due 6/09
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