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mellowmood ( member #2097) posted at 1:03 AM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2010
Great idea Skye - maybe we can pick a book towards the end of this one. I was stressing about getting the book in time.
NewAttitude (original poster member #1030) posted at 10:40 PM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2010
Okay, who has it, who doesn't, and are we good to go or not?
Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.
mellowmood ( member #2097) posted at 10:58 PM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2010
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 11:52 PM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2010
I have a copy and have started reading. 
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 11:53 PM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2010
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
waiting2see ( member #13767) posted at 12:49 AM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
me: BS
him: XWS
Someone I love once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift. --Mary Oliver
really trying ( member #5311) posted at 2:45 AM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
go ahead, go ahead, I'll be late to the party but will catch up.
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
Skye ( member #325) posted at 3:07 AM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
punky ( member #12233) posted at 5:36 AM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
I have mine. 
13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.
summerbaby ( member #28879) posted at 5:50 AM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
"Find out who you are, and do it on purpose.- Dolly Parton
summerbaby ( member #28879) posted at 5:59 AM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
Maybe after we're half way thru this book we can start a seperate thread to vote on our next book. That way we can have our next book ordered before we finish with this one.
"Find out who you are, and do it on purpose.- Dolly Parton
hope4tomorrow ( member #21673) posted at 6:47 PM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
Sounds good.
I have mine!
Me BW
Him WH-SA
Married 12 years
3 Beautiful girls 8 and under
howcouldhe1 ( member #13210) posted at 9:44 PM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
I have mine. Going to start reading in a while.
Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.
manAscending ( member #26919) posted at 10:19 PM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
I'm still waiting on my copy, but if you go ahead and start, I'll catch up with the reading.
really trying ( member #5311) posted at 10:38 PM on Thursday, August 26th, 2010
I got mine! and library cards to the county and city libraries.
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
ladyvorkosigan ( member #8283) posted at 10:43 PM on Friday, August 27th, 2010
It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls he’d known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.
manAscending ( member #26919) posted at 11:32 PM on Friday, August 27th, 2010
mellowmood ( member #2097) posted at 11:34 PM on Friday, August 27th, 2010
So maybe the question is who doesn't have theirs?
imscared_k ( member #14061) posted at 5:36 PM on Saturday, August 28th, 2010
I don't have mine, but my library has it on CD. I plan on picking it up tonight.
waiting2see ( member #13767) posted at 10:02 PM on Saturday, August 28th, 2010
I've finished the section (love the book btw). Will we be discussing Monday now that (it seems) most people have the book?
me: BS
him: XWS
Someone I love once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift. --Mary Oliver
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