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Well it's here!

Tomorrow we head south, separating our family. It's so bittersweet. The kids have been prepared. FG and I both have knots in our stomachs, yet we know we are doing the right thing.

It's scary.

It's exciting.

We have work ahead of us to repair our M and to keep our focus on a healthy happy family.

We can do this. Right?

I hope so. I want this. I think he wants this.

I will miss the most mundane things. I will leave my old key collection that hangs all over the place....I like that they open doors, old and new, that they can lock them....I really like keys.

I will miss my chinese cats and my all the weird crap I collect. But it all stays here, in my home.

I will live somewhere else, but this place is HOME.

[This message edited by refuz2bavictim at 8:16 PM, September 7th (Tuesday)]

We can do this. Right?

Yep

Good luck!

We are here for both of you.

Yes, moving day is here...but you are not moving away from home...you are taking our daughter to a place where she can realize and live her dream. I will be here, you will be there, but this is our home. This is where our family lives, and it is filled with OUR love. Yes, your keys will still be here, your chinese cats will be right where you left them, and your scent will still linger and remind me every single time how much I love you, and I lucky and fortunate I am that you made the decision to give me, and our M a chance.

YES, we can do this. YES, I want this. No, I don't want to be away from you, but I want our daughter to have the chance of a life time, and pursue her dream.

I will be here. I will work on my R (because you know my R is so important to our R), and I will be the best man I can be, I will do it for you, for our children, and for our love.

I will miss you. I will miss having you there, next to me. But then again, you are still here. You are in my heart. You are everywhere.

I will always...always love and adore you!

Wow, I really hope for the best for you both. FG1969 that last posting had me crying! I wish my FWH could say all that and all at once. Wow! Good luck to you both.

This is exhausting!!!!

Here in one piece, and really miss the other half of my family.

My oldest has a senior event tomorrow and I will miss it. DD is working on a community service project. I am so glad that FG is stepping up to the plate. They aren't complaining, but they say the house is too quiet, without me pacing around nagging someone to pick something up and put something where it belongs. They think I'm "funny and cute" when I yell. I don't think I would have done well in the military. Hmmmm.... I am not sure how to take that coming from two almost out of the house teens. But at least they miss it.

Maybe the littlest ones got the short end of this deal. Poor kids.