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JessicaFL127 (original poster member #26864) posted at 2:26 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Baby Bear is going in for surgery tomorrow. We have to go in for his echo/EKG first so that cardiology can clear him for his (non-cardio) surgery. This is his fifth surgery, so you'd think I wouldn't be so antsy about it, but he is an anesthesia risk and his last surgery resulted in admission to the hospital b/c of pneumonia from the breathing tube. I am pretty nervous, hugs/prayers/anything is appreciated. 
BW,35
divorced for 10 years
Happily remarried to a much better choice.:D
mom to two awesome boys,14 and 13
And now to a beautiful baby girl, 1 <3
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 2:33 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
((((Jessica and Baby Bear))))
Saying prayers it goes well.
gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
mellowmood ( member #2097) posted at 2:54 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Prayers going up from California. Keep us updated. Will continue praying tomorrow AM.
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 2:54 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Lighting candles and prayers for you and the lil'bear.
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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
chopper ( member #5772) posted at 7:41 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
(((((Jessica and Baby Bear)))))
Keeping him in my prayers
Me BS(52) (39 at DD)
WH passed away on 3/21/2013(52) (44 at DD)
2 Kids S(27) D(24) (14 and 11 at DD)
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."–George MacDonald
"Not being able to govern events, I govern myself." –
sosad101 ( member #19736) posted at 8:07 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Saying healing prayers for Baby Bear and prayers for peace and calm for Jessica.
Me, BW 57, Him WH 57; married 39 years
2 grown children 6 grandchildren
DDay 2-6-08
OW 30 and I had treated that POS like a member of our family
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 8:14 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Aw...lots of prayers and positive thoughts for you and the baby.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
JessicaFL127 (original poster member #26864) posted at 1:51 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Okay, we will be going out the door in about an hour to meet the cardiologist for joshie's testing, big boy just got on the bus to school and little one will be getting out of bed soon. He doesn't know it, but he's been fasting and won't be allowed his usual morning cup of milk, so he will be VERY unhappy with me. 
Poor guy, I always have to enforce the rules, I'm so mean! 
Thanks so much for the encouragement, I really need it today, I am so nervous. Thanks.
Here we go....... 
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BW,35
divorced for 10 years
Happily remarried to a much better choice.:D
mom to two awesome boys,14 and 13
And now to a beautiful baby girl, 1 <3
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you
iwantamiracle ( member #22812) posted at 1:58 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
sending healing prayers for a successful surgery and recovery
(((baby bear)))
My life is finally my own!!
I am happy and I am at peace!
I survived the worst pain I have ever known!!
scarredforever ( member #23875) posted at 2:04 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I hope everything goes well.
"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."
Mark Twain
Me-BS 54
Him-WS 55
Together 35 years
6-5-06 Day of Reckoning
Familiarity breeds contempt.
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 2:59 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Hugs & prayers for guys, hoping Little Bear has a swift recovery...
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
cantbelieve ( member #22028) posted at 3:15 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Jessica,
No matter how many surgeries they go through, it never gets easier. My prayers are with you and your son.
Me: BS (61)
Him: WS (61)
LTA 4 years with co-worker
DS(30)
DD(26)
DD(23)
Married 32 years
D-day1 5/08
D-day2 11/08
Status: 6 yrs and wondering if I'll ever be truly happy again
Pippy ( member #16482) posted at 4:00 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Hugs and prayers to your whole family and a special hug for him. 
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
mellowmood ( member #2097) posted at 9:48 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Praying that things are going well and for a quick recovery.
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 10:08 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Wow so many surgeries for this little one! Sending good thoughts your way.
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
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