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So here we are, one year to the day since FWH returned from his deployment and we started R'ing.

I stopped posting around the first of the year. Our lives just seem to explode. Some good ways, some not so good ways.

xOW married the poor sap that left her at the alter last year. She's cheated on him at least twice that I know of. (anyone surprised? ...anyone? Me either)

They moved into my general neighborhood. 2 blocks away. She drives by my house twice a day. She got a dog and named it after my husband's World of Warcraft character. She walks him twice a day and of course, has to walk right by my house. She scolds him and calls out to him, knowing that there's a chance we can hear her. Idiot.

She had her brother request to be my FaceBook friend. I politely declined. She signed herself and her dog up for the same Doggy Play Dates group that I bring my little Pomeranian to. She had my FWH's initials tattooed on her ankle. (oh yeah, her husband loved that one let me tell ya!) She has attempted suicide 4 more times this year. She's attempted to have my FWH charged with sexual assault having retracted her statement that it was consensual on the grounds that she is too mentally ill to give consent. This proved to be the final straw for the USMC and she has been separated from the Corps once and for all. She then tried to retract her retraction saying she was confused. Gee..ya think? Dumbass.

She is now just another Marine Wife and that brings me to the next list of her stunts..rofl

Insists on volunteering for all events that I am involved in. Tries to talk to me during said events. At the Family Fun Day picnic told everyone she wanted to throw me a baby shower. Over a dozen people asked me how far along I was. I told them that I'm not pregnant, which got repeated back to her and she then loudly said "Oh..I guess she's just fat!" I might be getting fat, but you're a whore. I can diet. Any questions?

Drunkenly insisted that I had poisoned her salad at the same picnic. Loudly. 9 times. Have another drink douche cookie. Hit on my son. Again. (he told her, and I quote, "not with your husbands dick and the neighbor taking the blame you low life skeezy 'ho") ...I love my kid so much!

The list goes on..

But at least I'm never bored!

Good for you! It seems that you are causing her pain by acting the better person. I know this is hard, but she will eventually give up. I will bet that to her this was a game of who could win your husband. I think it really is a blow to the whores self esteem when they lose to the wife.

Dumb bitches seem to think we are competing with them for our own husbands, how fucking stupid!!!!!!!!

They are nothing more than trash, which is why they usually get thrown away so easily.

It's great to see your post. I've thought about you - and wondered how you are doing.

I'm so sorry this sicko is still messing in your life.

I do wonder: What does this woman's husband do, when she's acting crazy at these events? Can't imagine anyone marrying this psycho bitch.

She has attempted suicide 4 more times this year

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She's not very good at this "suicide thing" is she?

Any chance your husband can get transferred?

I was wondering how you were! I'm so sorry you still have to deal with this crazy bitch. You are a strong and brave woman!

Whoa!

What a nutjob!

BTW, I am a USMC mom-and my son says all the women Marines are psycho.

Is your H aware of all her BS?

##Disclaimer-the above quote about female Marines is not endorsed by his mother-just an observation he made about the ones he encountered on his (Hawaiian) base##

[This message edited by trumanshow at 4:01 PM, September 8th (Wednesday)]

Her husband has left her twice this year. I'm not sure why he goes back. He knows what she's all about knows the things she does and he goes back for more. Maybe he loves her. Who am I to judge? Many would think I was crazy to even think about taking my FWH back. But he's doing everything required to make this work.

As to him being transfered, he can put in a request at the beginning of October. He's already let his command know of his desire to move to another base. If for no other reason because recently we finally got to the bottom of why I've been so sick since we got here. After several tests the doc said "You're allergic to cactus. Oh, Welcome to Arizona" Seriously? Who's allergic to friggin' cactus?? Only in my world boys and girls.

Her "suicide attempts". No, she's not very good at it. At my count this makes 10? Give or take a time or two. She came damned close the last time from what I hear.

And through it all, I can't help it, but a part of me feels so bad for her. She's so damaged. She desperately needs help and no one has once and for all said "if she won't take help willingly, then we will help her by force." Personally I think she needs to be committed. As my Momma used to say, "The child just ain't right!" I'm disgusted with the USMC for not helping her and just shuffling her around from unit to unit because no one wanted to deal with her. Now she's a dependent not a service member so the responsibility of her well being rests on her husband's shoulders. He is obviously not equipped to deal with this situation. God help us all, he deploys soon so she'll be loose without a leash.

What a nutjob!

BTW, I am a USMC mom-and my son says all the women Marines are psycho.

Is your H aware of all her BS?

She is a nutjob! lol I have found that a large number of female Marines are a few sammiches short of a picnic. I've also met some of the most outstanding women who also serve my country with pride and honor. And sanity.

My FWH is fully aware of all of her whacked out moves and stunts. Not much can be done. The USMC has councilled her husband about keeping his wife in check. Basically it's out of FWHs hands. The civilian police have said, "she has done nothing against the law."

I'll just be glad to be out of this Hell Hole.

[This message edited by bballmom43 at 8:39 AM, September 8th (Wednesday)]

I totally understand. And as I stated, I have met some truly amazing women who wear the uniform. In the military, just like in civilian life, there are some good, some bad. Of BOTH sexes. It's just how it goes.

Female service members DO get slammed. But throughout all of this, I'm proud to say that I was able to view her in two different lights. My low view of her as the OW and my respect for her as a Marine. I've gone out of my way to try and secure help for this very damaged young woman. I felt it was my duty as a Marine wife and as an American who truly loves and supports my husband's brothers and sisters in arms. Call me nuts, but I still to this day think she deserves and NEEDS help. Not only because she's a Marine (once a Marine, always a Marine) but because she's a fellow human being and woman.

OMG your son is AWESOME! Great comeback.

Your H must be so embarrassed that he was that stupid once. What does he have to say about this "semi-stalking"?

Your H must be so embarrassed that he was that stupid once. What does he have to say about this "semi-stalking"?

He's beyond embarrassed. He has said that he's not willing to wait until she does something against the law. He will hopefully be transferred soon, God willing on the other side of the country to a base with no need for xOW's husband MOS (job). In the meantime, we've been saving up so we can at least move to a different neighborhood. Then if she continues her daily trips by the house in her car and walking her dog we can at least go the the police and have something "valid" to go on. I just want to be far far away from her. I hope she gets help, but I'm at the end of my rope here. Enough already.

not with your husbands dick and the neighbor taking the blame you low life skeezy 'ho")

Your son absolutely rocks!

Sounds like OW is a psycho. I would maybe spray some bug killer near the sidewalk before she takes her walk.

(((hugs)))I'm so sorry you have to deal with her and all her drama. I know how it is, how can anyone heal when they are reacting to troublsome nutcase. I'm so sorry.

Glad to see your back. I hope you are doing well. Sorry to hear about the OW being so crazy. Hopefully soon you can find a way to seperate yourself from her.

Glad to see you're back and kudos for handling all this.

Oh, and...

I might be getting fat, but you're a whore. I can diet. Any questions?

Needs to go to the SI quote thread...on my way...

Delicious.

AJ's MOM

I might be getting fat, but you're a whore. I can diet. Any questions?

Glad to hear you're being so positive. At least life isn't boring, like you said.

What a crazy bitch.