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StoryHour ( member #19725) posted at 6:12 PM on Thursday, November 4th, 2010
I changed mine to "Widowed." It seemed more appropriate.
3 Strikes you're out pal!
D. 8-10
myworldjustended ( member #26472) posted at 8:08 PM on Thursday, November 4th, 2010
I changed mine to nothing a couple of months into the separation, last week I deleted his last name from my name.
[This message edited by myworldjustended at 2:09 PM, November 4th (Thursday)]
Sometimes it's best to forget how you feel and remember what you deserve.
BS: me 44
WH: 48
Married 6 years
OW: as far as I know 33
DD: Thanksgiving night
LTA:
sostressed ( member #18945) posted at 11:15 PM on Thursday, November 4th, 2010
Just recently. I also added my maiden name to my name on facebook. Still trying to decide what I will do about my name...
Married over 20 years
Me--BS, Hubby--FWS (affair with co-worker), D-Day--December 07
FWH still works with co-worker, reconciliation attempted for over two years, I moved out and left the state to stay with family while I get on my feet
ChampCar#10Fan ( member #8802) posted at 1:01 AM on Friday, November 5th, 2010
Went from "married" to "it's complicated" for about a week after we separated. Then I just took the status out completely. Even now, there's no mention of my relationship status. Once the pertinent people are told, then it's back to "single."
Me - BH (29); Her - WW (29)
D-Days - 11/8/05, 5/13/07
Asked for D 1/16/09
Filed for D 4/29/10
D Finalized 10/7/10
For in much wisdom there is much grief, and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow.
- Eccl 1:18 (KJV)
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 1:09 AM on Friday, November 5th, 2010
I kept it as Married for a few weeks after we separated, then just went to no status.
I would NEVER use It's complicated; it's NOT complicated; it's just that my stbxwh is an asshole.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Griefstricken25 ( member #29183) posted at 1:10 AM on Friday, November 5th, 2010
Oh, and I would NEVER put "it's complicated". That status is a major trigger for me. Before I knew about the A, but WH had befriended OW on Facebook (they worked together), HER status was "it's complicated". THAT was when i got my first uncomfortable "nigglings". 
Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011
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