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Spilledmilk ( member #30625) posted at 2:32 PM on Thursday, February 10th, 2011
I think that your suggestion is quite reasonable.
My FWH called my parents and apologized, which was obviously extremely awkward. I think that if your wife is serious, she should be willing to do the same. Heck, she should WANT to.
Me-BS-29
Him-WH-29
2 kids
He had a 5 month A- DDay July 2010
Currently in R
Merlin ( member #30221) posted at 2:33 PM on Thursday, February 10th, 2011
TennTears,
Why respond to this gibberish at all?
180. 180. 180.
"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence
Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11
shattered123 ( member #27843) posted at 3:32 PM on Thursday, February 10th, 2011
Shortly after D-day, my FWH stood in my adult son's home with me, my son, my daughter and daughter-in-law. He apologized to everyone for his terrible behavior.
Your wife needs to "man up" and accept that the blame is hers alone. I don't know if I could forgive my daughter-in-law if she cheated on my son. It would definitely change the relationship. I also must say that although my kids (from previous marriage) are civil to my husband, they have not completely forgiven him, though his apology did go a long way.
I hope your wife gets it soon. In the meantime, it is agonizing for you. I know. Hang in there, sending you prayers for peace.
Postpartum Pain ( member #26524) posted at 7:25 PM on Thursday, February 10th, 2011
BW-33(me) WH-37(him)
3 amazing children- 15yoDS, 10yoDS, 7yoDD
Together 18Y; Married 12Y
DDay#1- 12/10/09- 3 month EA/PA with our banker.
DDay#2 1/4/10- earlier 3 month EA OW#2
Possible DD#3- 12/24/14 Random letter from some unknown mistress
R
cuckhold ( member #25015) posted at 8:29 PM on Friday, February 11th, 2011
"But..." negates the statement before it. She's throwing the blame back on you.
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