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cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 5:18 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011
Okay if you are new or if you're old, please share your birthday with us so we can give you a proper cake in Fun and Games. Birthday cakes get posted the evening before your special day so that you can wake up to wonderful cake for breakfast.
****If you have not posted at SI in the 2 months prior to your birthday...your birthday will not be posted in Fun and Games and you will be removed from the list...****
****The Birthday List is updated once a month. I will post on this thread when it has been updated.****
Thanks for your understanding.
JANUARY
01 Mangled Heart
01 shocked4
01 Alex CR
02 Weatherly
02 fraeukend
04 booger bear
04 Brandon808
05 socold
06 LoveActually
06 TMR0601
07 faithful2theend
07 dirk pitt
07 hurting2much
10 healingwife
10 dab110
10 BrokenAngelWings
12 darkbeast
14 tsol25
15 tamarack
15 collateraldamage
15 FacingReality
16 Maia
18 bluelady
19 Healing2012 (will be 40 in 2012)
19 still confounded
21 ajsmom
22 Want2Run
24 What2do
24 jlb2005
25 cantlivewithouth
27 k94ever
27 JessicaFL127
27 shatteredandlost
28 Yme
29 Want2help
29 scangel3
30 vale
31 Oliver
31 metamorphisis
31 FogHater
31 Abby
31 KarenDC
FEBRUARY
02 hurtintx
02 Damaged2010
03 nowiknow23
04 tounne
06 Tania
06 awife
06 JoePike
06 trying to smile
07 travels
07 Tesa
08 OnMyFeet
11 devistatedmom
12 NoLongerWantHim
15 kidsbane
15 gogirl
15 juliette
16 Thanos
16 helpingmenow
16 HUFI-PUFI
16 drowninginsorrow
16 unbreak_my_heart
17 wantmore
18 OnMyFeet
20 Jay1029
21 Jimi40
24 Hope24
26 foxglove
26 sullymeishadomi
28 gardenparty
29 leapyearbaby
MARCH
01 FrozenTear
02 Mama_of_3_Kids
03 Crushed38
04 cjonesjag
04 shattered123
05 Devastated2010
05 realgood2u
06 willowiris
08 HardenMyHeart
08 tkd1
08 girlsbird
10 agreensleeve
11 Ravingyogini
12 Ongelikkig
12 scared&stronger
12 LisaReg
13 tuscandreamer
13 Innocence Lost
14 Truthseekholly
16 AttemptStrength
17 tobeornottobe
21 afraidshesgone
21 BMC0415
23 Deeply Scared
24 Bobbi_sue
25 chopper
25 down4now
25 deeplysad
26 Amazonia
27 crazycatlady
28 bbee
30 thyme2go
APRIL
02 uniquenewyork
02 poopylala
03 Crickey
06 looking forward
07 D!senchanted
10 Basic_Guy
10 hopelessromantic
10 Amla
12 BoardPearl
14 bpositive
17 lorilook
17 cantbelieve
18 HowMany
18 reelingbuthealin
22 Thernody
22 brohl5
22 APRIL2008
23 livetotell
23 Grace Under Fire
26 sadcat
28 deena
28 cass
28 Myheartstillhurt
29 Lalagirl
MAY
01 lovinlife
04 Just-a-Statistic
05 lied2
05 treading water
07 Too_Trusting
08 hard_yards
09 emotiona hell
09 Going_Under
11 Eranda
11 GrievingMommy
12 bamboozled1
13 BetterHalf
14 horseluvr
14 WhiteWolfWinning
15 SabinatheOwl
16 Edie
16 caregiver9000
17 GabyBaby
19 Listeningclosely
19 worried_lady
20 lostinlove4ever
20 oldtimer97
20 revkwd
22 invictus
22 Jrazz
22 Jenny22
23 Kalleigh
23 lieshurt
24 bufffalo
25 wonderboy
25 SisterMilkshake
25 lawyergirl25
29 incredulous
31 WhiistleSt0p
31 itainteasy
JUNE
01 movingforward777
01 neverendinghurt
02 Nightlord
03 colezmom1221
04 LDT3
07 LostJim
08 daisy9204d
09 painpaingoaway
09 emmawa
09 ohsolost
10 blindsidedinCO
10 rollercoaster80
10 MixedUpMess
11 trytoforgive
13 Dagny07
13 SierraGrace
13 Hera
14 Godsgirl
15 LovingASoldier
16 JS223
16 ExhaustedOne
17 gma56
17 vtach
18 Nora Nora
20 hhmtbth
20 whatdoto
21 really trying
21 Lolati11
22 philly172
23 Lucky
24 okaynow
24 purplejacket4
24 always-hope
24 samsmom113
25 bitterandlost
26 imwideawake
26 tellmewhy
26 trixie
27 soso1110
28 miadianna
29 thebighurt
30 missyb32641
JULY
01 BritChick
03 skypilot
04 moonchild53
05 ladyvorkosigan
06 nooneeverthought
06 stretch13
07 hurtinky
07 traditoperanni
08 CryingEyes
08 NewBeginning2010
08 sadmama2012
09 greenviolets
09 loserhusband
12 jean
13 InItNow
13 TrustedHer
14 bitesthedust
14 so unsure girl
15 UKgirl
15 followedmyheart
16 FrenchGirl
16 cantbelieve
17 LostandGuilty
17 Vanjo (real birthday)
18 luvbug0915
18 dreamlife
18 butterfly30
18 ktm250mx
19 wwashington
19 jo2love
19 TheHardWay
20 Mommato4
21 b3tr4y3d
21 JustWantHimBack
22 Jpapageorge
23 Devestatedx5
23 deeppurple
23 amorfati
24 Ellejay
25 SurvivinginCA
25 wifehad5
25 epiphany2006
26 ohpuhlease
26 SweetheartVixen
26 Violated
27 Star727
27 JayneDoe
28 Cecil2156
28 StrongMother
28 MissesJai
29 jrc1963
29 sosad101
29 odiebluesky
29 Chria
30 Kamkin
AUGUST
01 Catwoman
02 PiQue
02 stillinshockx2
02 alonenow
03 NWfleur
03 fromthisdayfwd
04 my3threekids
04 dead_but_alive
05 mel88
05 GeauxTigers
05 stupidstupidme
06 Waywardson
06 deathbybetrayal
06 Just Crushed
07 BetrayedWife7
08 redvixen
08 Sad in AZ
08 fairyfriend
09 Caston
09 BreatheAgain10
11 Grasshopper
12 amitheow
12 hope4better
13 woundedby2
15 MovingUpward
15 blue_roses
16 yme816
17 usedup
17 Laura28
18 AppalachianGal
18 Nycolette
18 hurtingstudent
19 Crushed1
19 summerbaby
20 nostupidboys
21 clv40
22 achingheart
23 cryingdaily
23 Kajem
24 Naive Again
24 honesttoafault
25 meaniemouse
25 mommy0508
26 New Attitude
27 sammie
28 Jekyll
28 annb
28 ThriveNotSurvive
28 total chaos
30 worldtraveler
30 IamsosorryHB1993
31 youkiddinme
31 juki
SEPTEMBER
02 lostandafraid
03 mom2
04 Confused Dad (Do not delete, the birthday thread was his baby to begin with.)
04 wanauld
05 Crossbow
07 Junebug0525
09 ISPIFFD
09 wishingitwasnt
10 BrokenRoad
12 4myheart
13 lostsuol
13 sharim
13 LostMyPrince
14 ImSoTired
15 noircoeur
16 hit-by-a-train
16 welcome14
16 Pulverized
18 SeekingJoy
19 SerenityLost
21 HeavyE
21 sunfish
23 unarmbears
23 areyoukidding
23 momentintime
23 imokay
24 capri
26 Fallen
26 Jessy1501
27 Kodi
27 damncutekitty
27 openbook
28 Rollercoaster
28 jilted-big-time
28 Ripley123
29 two2muchpain
30 aLadypilot
30 isadora
30 heartbroken30
30 Dazed In Dixie
OCTOBER
01 awesomedamaged
01 teacheribe
03 2crazykids
03 gardenmom
04 TrulyReconciled
06 So painful
06 childofcheater
07 Inchoate
07 gracee
07 need_hope
09 BrokenPieces
09 Heartbroken1993
10 lifeblowntobits
12 sadtoo
12 numb and scared
13 nofun
13 9years
14 chloecat1
16 rhea
16 refuz2bavictim
17 sickrn
19 brokenpromise
20 much2old4this
21 EvenKeel
21 fyou143
25 imagoodwitch
25 TrustGone (will be 50 in 2012)
25 Tryingtoheal61
27 not_a_martyr
30 island_girl
30 lingerdog
30 nikiseval
31 bronzermike
NOVEMBER
03 momoffive
03 TrainerCarrie
04 CanISurvive
04 jewel123
04 luvedmypbear
07 OnceWasEnough (50 in 2011)
07 Shoestring
07 SickInMySoul
10 LoveFantasy
10 ghmom
11 gahurts
11 scorpio1
12 MovingAhead
12 yewtree
20 Luv2Fleamarket
22 wildbananas
23 influx
23 Hurtslikeheck
25 Mrs Jenkins
25 UR_AN_IDIOT
28 katiej
28 stillpissed
30 trustagain
DECEMBER
01 teach5
03 TryingToBreathe
08 SerJR
09 HurtingandLost
09 broken29
10 ThoughtIKnewYa
11 sad12008
11 starstruck
13 BeenThereDunThat
13 njgal480
16 Snapdragon
17 glad2Bfree
17 LostinPA
17 IKnowNow
18 Exit Wounds
20 solus sto
22 Authenticnow
22 beingmiranda
25 lovinghimanyway
25 whatjusthappened
27 hurtbs
27 HFSSC
27 ThePilotsWife86
27 trumanshow
29 punky
30 Waiting4Daylite
30 dinosaurrules
31 MoreThanMe
[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 1:47 PM, October 3rd (Wednesday)]
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
victory ( member #31088) posted at 5:19 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011
Mine's coming up in march. March 20th. Looking forward to some cake!
Dday- 1-26-11 (7 month PA)
BH (me)-41
WW- 37
3 little kids (6-8-10)
married 11 yrs, together 17
Divorced summer 2012 (I think)
I HAVE CUSTODY OF MY GIRLS!!!
LostinPA ( member #24986) posted at 6:54 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011
Together: 17 years Married: 3
no kids
Me: 42
Him:(XH now) Who cares!
D-Day: 04/20/09
Divorced: 9/16/2010
The best things in life aren't things. - My grandmother
Thanos ( member #22131) posted at 9:40 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011
Two days people ...... FEbruary 16.
trixie ( member #4217) posted at 9:44 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011
Strategically placed JUNE 26
(goodies every 6 months)
Thanks
Katy Perry "FIREWORK"
Free your heart from hatred, Free your mind from worries,
Live simply, Give more and Expect even Less.
What's a DDay? I call it Freedom.
Mr. Kite ( member #28840) posted at 1:36 PM on Tuesday, February 15th, 2011
I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what not to do.
sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 4:33 PM on Tuesday, February 15th, 2011
I'm actually Feb 26 not 16.(eh is Feb 16).
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 4:37 PM on Tuesday, February 15th, 2011
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
BMC0415 ( member #14038) posted at 4:40 PM on Tuesday, February 15th, 2011
March 21st.
Thanks Can't
Me: 50+ Him: 50+Married: 20+ yearsD-Day: 3/7/07Children: 32dd,31ds,29dd 10 yr. LTA 3 OC w/OW 24,18,18. 8/14/12-gave custody of twins to ex 8/16/12-DIVORCED!
starstruck ( member #29547) posted at 4:43 PM on Tuesday, February 15th, 2011
December 11th. Think I'll still be here.
DDay 7/29/2010
Am hoping to reconcile!! Am I crazy or what?
If we all did the things we are capable of doing we would literally astound ourselves-Thomas Edison
uniquenewyork ( member #30811) posted at 3:22 PM on Wednesday, February 16th, 2011
Me(BS): 45/Her(WS): 45
S:12,D:9,D:7
Affair with OM#1 before we were married.
Couple day fling w/ OM#2
Me as a WS: late '07-early '08.
EA/PA with OM#3: 2/16/09 (many D-days after, broken NC.)
EA/PA with OM#4: Found September '10; PA
TryingMyHardest ( member #27168) posted at 4:38 PM on Wednesday, February 16th, 2011
February 26th, and I believe I've spoken with foxglove before, so that's kind of cool.
Married 2006
2 kids, 4yo
D-Day 1: December 30th 2009
D-Day 2: 2/1/11
D-day 3: 2/13/11
D-Day 4: 3/28/11
WW Drug addict for 2 years, Morphine, Fentanyl, Xanax, clean since June '09
5 OM, about 20 seperate sexual encounters
JessicaFL127 ( member #26864) posted at 1:36 AM on Thursday, February 17th, 2011
BW,35
divorced for 10 years
Happily remarried to a much better choice.:D
mom to two awesome boys,14 and 13
And now to a beautiful baby girl, 1 <3
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you
Jay1029 ( member #30541) posted at 2:07 PM on Saturday, February 19th, 2011
BH (Me) 39
WW (Her) 37
2 Childern, Girl 9, Boy 15 months
Married 14 years together 20
DDay 10/29/2010 - This F'ing sucks
Wife's DDay some time in Nov 2010 - I confessed to an A I had 12 years ago.
Currently working on R
beyondalllimits ( member #29253) posted at 10:24 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2011
BS (Me) 54
WS (Him) 55
DD #1 7/7/10
DD #2 11/30/10 (same OW)
Married 31 yrs, together 36 yrs
LuvingMe ( member #28829) posted at 1:55 PM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2011
23 Feb. Today!! I better get the cake. hope not too late
I can't even walk without you (Jesus) holding my hand.
Devastated2010 ( member #30044) posted at 6:33 PM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2011
March 5th 
socold ( member #17400) posted at 12:14 AM on Friday, February 25th, 2011
Jan 5
Thanks can't,... you are awesome for making this happen. I know it's not a simple thing.
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
Crushed38 ( member #30644) posted at 4:12 PM on Friday, February 25th, 2011
It's amazing that someone can break your heart and you still love them with all of the little pieces. -unknown
yougogirl ( member #11332) posted at 7:13 PM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2011
Me = doormat BS, early 50s
Him = Narcissistic XWH, same age
Married 25 years, known 28 years, HAPPILY divorced
One DD (18) and 2 pets
Separated 12/15/14, divorced 11/2016
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