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cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 11:28 PM on Friday, November 4th, 2011
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
Laura ( member #5187) posted at 3:05 AM on Wednesday, November 16th, 2011
D-Day: 7/2004
Married: 16 years
Me (WS): 44
Him (BS): 44
DD: 22
DD: 20
DD: 13
DD: 13
DS: 13
Trying Reconcilitaion since late 2004
still trying....
totallybroken ( new member #31266) posted at 2:14 AM on Sunday, November 20th, 2011
Mine was yesterday.... November 19
Me-33, H-37 & has two sons, (16,12)
No kids of our own
Together almost 7 years now.
DD#1-2005, DD#2-2007 3 times and with this MOW-Making C until I found out!!, DD#3 - btwn jan 2011
MOW-in her 40s,5 kids
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 2:17 AM on Sunday, November 20th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
gonogo1 ( member #25518) posted at 10:45 AM on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
Copied from HUFI-PUFI
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 5:36 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
yay! You finally updated this so I'm on the list now! Woo hoooo!!! 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Sorceress ( member #33420) posted at 6:23 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
I am December 24th. This year I will be 28
me- BSo 30, happily in new relationship
him-ex wso 40, child sex offender
DD-6 DS-4
I look for the good and admirable in every soul. The people that seem to be neither are terrifying.
macakipa ( member #33735) posted at 6:27 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 6:28 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
You missed mine! Hahaha!
That was my best villainous laugh.
Myheartstillhurt ( member #32430) posted at 6:29 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
BS(me) 34
fWH 38 (Epicallyfailedu)
OW/xBFF of 28 years
Four girls under 11
DDay: 6/5/2010
beautiful3liar ( member #34157) posted at 9:22 PM on Friday, December 9th, 2011
~Time Discovers Truth
Me 32
WH 30
Dday #1 September 2011
Dday #2 January 2015
Bebba1171 ( member #33857) posted at 10:14 PM on Friday, December 9th, 2011
Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!
UndecidedinMA ( member #33732) posted at 11:18 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2011
ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R
confusedkitty ( member #33824) posted at 1:43 PM on Friday, December 16th, 2011
Fire96 ( member #34131) posted at 3:32 AM on Saturday, December 17th, 2011
Me, BS-57
WW-52
DD, 1/9/2011
Filed for divorce 6/14
Divorce final 7/2015
Free at last, Free at last, Thank God Almighty I'm free at last!
putonahappyface ( member #30269) posted at 12:59 PM on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011
BS (me) - 51; SAWH- 52 (hurtherbadly)
Married 28 yrs
2 DS - 21&17
Dday 6/4/2010. 2 EA/PA
11/15/12 update: discovered porn addiction
4 years out: M is strong; FWH is a new man :)
Sapphire_blue ( member #34074) posted at 5:57 PM on Thursday, December 22nd, 2011
I think NIKs DD said it best "Mom, are married people even supposed to be on dating sites?"
"Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could have been any different.” ― Oprah Winfrey
HurtnTorn ( new member #33289) posted at 8:26 PM on Friday, December 23rd, 2011
Mine is Dec 25th ... 
Life is all about choices… He chose her… I choose ME!
Me:BS (30)
Him: SBXH(30 -- mental age 15?)
Married: 5yrs
Together: 8 yrs (friends for 11 yrs! really?!!!)
D-Day:12 June2011
2nd D-Day:15 July2011
Divorce: Filed
Status: Angry.
FeelsSoRight ( member #28377) posted at 1:50 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2011
Mine is December 26. I'll be 47 day after tomorrow.
Me - W - 48
Him - H - 47
Together since we were 14/15
Married 27 yrs in August (renewed our vows in 2011-H's idea!)
DD-23, DS-15
Separated for 7 mos & were 3 wks from divorce when we reconciled
Happily R for almost 4 years
topeaka17 ( member #31052) posted at 2:01 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2011
My birthday is coming up soon- the 30th of this month :)
You always hurt the one you love,the one you shouldn't hurt at all,you always take the sweetest rose and crush it until the petals fall,so if I broke your heart last night its cuz I love ya most of all
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