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4kidscheatinghub (original poster member #31203) posted at 3:43 PM on Friday, April 1st, 2011
anyone have any experience with his stuff...i feel my WS losing me fast bc he really cannot understand the hurt and excrutiating pain i am in and it is so hard to explain to him...this sounds like it addresses this but just wanted someone who has read to enlighten me.thanks so much!
Me-34years old
husband (cheater)-39
4 amazing kids
http://www.ihatehimihatehimnot.wordpress.com
Boy-12
Girl-age 10
Boy/girl twins age 6
AND IT STILL WASN'T ENOUGH!
D-DAY-2/14/11
in counseling constantly but pain is excrutiating. He wants
UR_AN_IDIOT ( member #18764) posted at 5:09 PM on Friday, April 1st, 2011
I actually paid way too much to download the book and I still have it.
I did read through it. It does address the pain a WS causes adequately but seriously it is all common sense. There is no "magical" way he describes it.
My WS was not at the point that he cared yet when I bought it and that was the problem. There is no way to force someone to hear the truth unless they want to.
Also the fixes to the hurt seemed a lot like rug sweeping and mind over matter.
It was very expensive and IMO there isn't anything earth shattering in there that couldn't be found in a regular book like Not Just Friends.
If you PM me I would be willing to mail it to you.
[This message edited by UR_AN_IDIOT at 11:10 AM, April 1st (Friday)]
Me: BW 56
FWH: 58
Married 33 years
DD 31 DS 28
Reconciled
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