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iseetriple (original poster member #6556) posted at 10:00 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
Thought I would check in with a happy ending ...oops, I mean, sobering story of consequences.
(okay, let me compose myself)
It seems that the stripper OW-girlfriend-homewrecker is under house arrest for felony tax evasion!! Yes, ankle bracelets are in this season. How did I hear this?? well I got a phone call from Ex husbands girlfriend...no, not the OW convict...but the woman he is cheating on her with!!
Where do I even begin??!! My Ex held me hostage for a 2+ year divorce because my forensic accountant discovered that my EX had committed tax fraud . I would not agree to divorce until my responsibility was completely waved by ex (I had NO idea) Ex refused for more than 2 years. Yesterday he stood in my driveway trying to tell me that OW had nothing to do with the tax evasion..it was HER Ex husbands fault. I got so much pleasure reminding him of our scenario that I clearly must still need therapy.. 
New ow who called me went on and on providing me with useful information to hold over my EX. She even told me that EX walked in on Stripper OW girlfriend in their bed naked with her boss....but he believes her when she says they were just "talking"
OW 2 called OW 1 and told her that she is sleeping with EX...OW 1 can't leave because EX is supporting her and her children....not to mention that little GPS accessory on her ankle EX is furious about supporting her....he also paid for the attorney fees resulting from the 3 year court case for tax evasion...but of course, his reason for leaving the mother of his children was that I spent too much money.)
Ex is apologizing to me for bringing more mess into our lives. I let him know it's not messy for ME at all. He is begging me not to tell anyone because it will bring shame to our children. Again I reminded him that running off with a stripper 8 years ago brought shame to our family but we are healthy and living a beautiful life...his felon OW is not a reflection on the children or me....and I don't care who knows.
As of today he is asking me to help him out of this mess.
Not.My.Problem
The children are safe, happy adjusted and okay loving their dad (not always liking him) for who he is. They have never respected the OW (she is rude to them) and likely never will.
Final words from Ex yesterday:" Divorce was the biggest mistake of my life"
(it really wasn't a good time for me to tell him I have never been happier)
Don't waste your whole life trying to get back what was taken away.
259 ( member #22860) posted at 10:12 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
thank you
I wanna be you when I grow up
Me = FBS
Him = gone
things that happen in my life do not define who I am. I get to choose to be the best I can be, for me. cause I'm worth it.
SoldieringOn ( member #29487) posted at 10:17 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
Soldier 45
DBGS Ex Wife 44
Was Married 21 Years
Son - 13 years old
D-Day 23 AUG 10
Divorced 5 OCT 11
gonogo1 ( member #25518) posted at 10:20 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
Your an inspiration , thanks for sharing.
Copied from HUFI-PUFI
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
tiredandhurt ( member #33059) posted at 10:27 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
totally ditto...
That was the most beautiful story and please pass the tissue - I am so moved by the happy ending. I hope someone comes along and wants to buy the movie rights...just think of all the yet innocent marrieds who could go out on their "date night" and watch it together...
thank you so much for sharing
understandingwhy ( member #33279) posted at 10:38 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
Myself: BS (52)
Her: Does it matter? (2 affairs)
D-Day: Valentines week 2011
Married over 27 years.
Finalizing
"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 11:01 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
That's just heart warming. Thanks for sharing!
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
erh12275 ( member #14869) posted at 11:13 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
Final words from Ex yesterday:" Divorce was the biggest mistake of my life"
(it really wasn't a good time for me to tell him I have never been happier)
But me being me...I would have done it anyway.
Me-BS-37
Him-WS-32
3 girls 11/9/7
Married 11 years
D-day Thanksgiving 2006
-Never lie to anyone smarter than yourself.-
Stucklikeglue ( member #32243) posted at 11:48 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
I truly love your story! Thank you for sharing! And good job to you for creating your own healthy and happy family without him!
DIVORCED! Happy for new freedom and new beginnings!
2 awesome boys, 3 and 5
1 awesome stepson: 15
DDay: 24 Mar 2011
INDEPENDANCE DAY (the big D): 14 Sep 2011
purplefinch ( member #32471) posted at 11:56 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
I love this! Karma bus hit him for sure. Happy for you!
Married 28 years, together 32; DD age 28
Me BW: 56
XWH: 58, liar
DDay 6/3/2011
skank-a-saurus: 48 yo FORMER friend of 30 years.
status: Divorced January 25, 2012!!
Snapdragon ( member #4286) posted at 11:58 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
Gosh, I'm just all busted up over his poor luck. 
NOT! 
Final words from Ex yesterday:" Divorce was the biggest mistake of my life"
Frankly, his biggest mistake was his actions that caused the divorce. Dumb shit.
Thanks for the update. I do love a happy ending.
Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 12:45 AM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
OMG, this is too funny.
Stripper with an ankle bracelet.
That adds a whole new level of fantasy doesn't it?
Maybe she can bling it up a bit when she wears it on the pole.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Whalers11 ( member #27544) posted at 1:00 AM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
Am I going to hell for loving to hear stories like this?
sad&scared ( member #23401) posted at 1:36 AM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
this is refreshing to hear especially to someone new to this horrible Sep/Divorce life.
thankyou for sharing!!!!
LisaBrandNew ( member #30522) posted at 2:04 AM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
Your story made me smile. We all hope for such perfect Karma. Glad you are happier than ever. I hope we all get there.
Finally living the life I was meant to live.
itsallgone ( member #32197) posted at 2:42 AM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
After this mornings nightmare, this is the perfect bedtime story for me tonight!! I hope to have a very similar story in 8 years :) Thank you! 
Me BW: 37
Him: WS 37
Baby Girl 9 months old
Amazing Step Kids: G/10, B/8
DDay: 4/15
DIVORCING...and he is signing away all rights on our baby so he wont have to pay support. I'll have peace of mind that I never have to turn her over to the
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:57 AM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
But what happened to the unicorns and rainbows??? 
I'm going to frame this story
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
bent44 ( member #31386) posted at 7:03 AM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
Well, at least thongs are easy to slip over an ankle bracelet. She has that to be grateful for.
Happiness to you, and thank you for sharing! Big Smiles.
"If you marry a chicken, don't expect an eagle."
I don't know if my chicken will ever become an eagle. But rest assured, I'm going to be a phoenix. Nevermind that I am still in the ashes stage of the process.
Update...he
incrisis ( member #12945) posted at 12:16 PM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
How does he expect you to help? And why????
BW: 40 (34 on DDay)
WH: 39 (33 on Dday, LTA and PAs)
M: 11 years, together 14, at time of S
3 kids
D-nial: 11/01/06
S: 07/21/07
D-ing! (very slowly)
--
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 1:58 PM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
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