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UnsettledOne ( member #32952) posted at 10:30 PM on Thursday, September 22nd, 2011
It is somewhat tragic that most articles us him and he rather the he/she.
My x is a she and she did the same things. It was amazingly destructive to my inner self. The hardest part is most men will not talk about it to others where as a WW will covertly spread it far and wide.
It has taken almost two years for some of my own children to come to the knowledge of the truth.
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shyguy ( member #18281) posted at 10:45 PM on Thursday, September 22nd, 2011
It is univerally true. The cheated(BH or BW) are demonized. It still hurts though. Knowing why is nice but does not ease the pain much.
Love stinks yeah yeah(J. Geils)
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 8:18 PM on Monday, September 26th, 2011
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
understandingwhy ( member #33279) posted at 8:38 PM on Monday, September 26th, 2011
NAILED IT!!!!!
One question.......Should I make a copy of this and give it to both my grown boys for reading???
[This message edited by understandingwhy at 2:42 PM, September 26th (Monday)]
Myself: BS (52)
Her: Does it matter? (2 affairs)
D-Day: Valentines week 2011
Married over 27 years.
Finalizing
"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
purplefinch ( member #32471) posted at 3:31 PM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2011
I wondered the same thing. I ended up asking DD (age 23) if she would like to read it. She declined but perhaps someday I will offer it up again to her.
Married 28 years, together 32; DD age 28
Me BW: 56
XWH: 58, liar
DDay 6/3/2011
skank-a-saurus: 48 yo FORMER friend of 30 years.
status: Divorced January 25, 2012!!
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