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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 11:26 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
dorothy95 ( member #33795) posted at 11:37 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011
That is quite possibly the worst story I have ever heard. Talk about perspective, however bad we think we are hurting, there is always someone hurting more. 23 years old, merely a baby. Not being patronising but at 23 you haven't found yourself yet.
If only she hadn't provoked him to make a gesture he hadn't thought through. Hopefully, one day she will understand what she did although some people just don't have a conscience.
Me (BS)- 45
WS- 50
Three sons- 22, 19, 15
Together- 27 years Married- 15 years
Short PA- 5 years ago EA- for the last year.
D Day- 30th Aug 2011
gonogo1 ( member #25518) posted at 11:40 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011
What a horrible thing she did . I am so sorry for your loss , her judgement will come if not in this life then in the next . Peace to you and your family .
Copied from HUFI-PUFI
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 11:54 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011
I am so, so sorry. Losing my brother was the hardest thing I've endured. I can't imagine losing him in this way. You have my deepest sympathies.
And his WW? She has a special place in hell reserved for her.
My God. Such evil.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
OnlyLonely ( member #14326) posted at 12:02 AM on Thursday, November 10th, 2011
I can't believe she had the balls to tell everyone the truth! WSs with no remorse like to lie like rugs. It sounds like she was almost proud that he did it.
I am so sorry, that has to be one of the absolute worst stories of infidelity I've heard.
If Karma doesn't get her, which in all likelihood it should. Then if you are religious take to heart that God is NOT going to be too happy with her come judgement day.
I am so so sorry.
Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married: 18 years
Status: In R
thundersdad78 ( member #30260) posted at 12:27 AM on Thursday, November 10th, 2011
So very sorry for your loss. The callous, cold, downright evil nature of some people is hard to fathom.
"Happiness depends upon ourselves." - Aristotle
sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 12:31 AM on Thursday, November 10th, 2011
Im so sorry about the loss of your brother. What a heartless bitch to do such a thing.
Im sorry she has kept your neice away from you. I hope she goes looking for you when she is older.
brokenandfedup ( member #33186) posted at 4:48 AM on Thursday, November 10th, 2011
WOW 
I'm so sorry for you and your family...
I'm speechless how heartless people can be... 
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 5:52 AM on Thursday, November 10th, 2011
Hi
I am truly sorry honey.
This is so awful.
The karma bus is on it's way - don't worry about that.
Just relax and see.
My FWH's OWs have been hit - and I didn't have to lift a finger. You see when a person is evil they bring bad things down on themselves.
People as evil as her always get it eventually.
I am enjoying some fantasising about her
1. She will never have a faithful partner - if she does she will screw up that relationship by cheating.
2. Her daughter will one day learn the story and totally reject her. She will then come looking for her real family.
3. She will get a really nasty STD (hopefully several).
4. Her current partner will one day think "What have I DONE!" and take off.
5. She will lose her job because she screws the wrong person.
6. She will die alone.
7. There will be a special place waiting for her in hell!!!
I hope she gets all of these!!!
BIG HUGS
Laura
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
kitticat ( member #23060) posted at 6:07 AM on Thursday, November 10th, 2011
((FTA)) So sorry to hear your story. My deepest condolences to you in the loss of your brother.
My situation was almost the other way around....the moment I confronted my FWH on d-day, he became hysterical and was focused on getting his gun to harm himself. In spite of my own pain, I had to do everything in my power to prevent him from having access to his gun. I thought of calling 911, but he finally fell asleep after sobbing for an hour.
Me - BS 64
Him - FWS 63
M 32 yrs, together 34 yrs.
2 adult offspring
D-Day: 8-2-06, TT for 6 weeks
15 random sexual encounters over 4 years.
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