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lost and lonely (original poster member #17205) posted at 11:20 PM on Saturday, February 4th, 2012
And i am sooo freaking nervous and sooooo freaking excited!!!! Wish me luck! :)
Me: 39
WxH: 39
Together 16yrs, married 12yrs (we were 16 and 17 when we met...high school sweethearts)
2 sons
Separated 6/09, Divorced 2/11
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 11:23 PM on Saturday, February 4th, 2012
Have fun !
Someone new or someone you know ?
gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
lost and lonely (original poster member #17205) posted at 11:25 PM on Saturday, February 4th, 2012
Hes been an acquaintance for bout 5yrs. But its a first date. The nerves are kicking in big time!
Me: 39
WxH: 39
Together 16yrs, married 12yrs (we were 16 and 17 when we met...high school sweethearts)
2 sons
Separated 6/09, Divorced 2/11
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 1:35 AM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
Good date mojo being sent your way!! And so nice that you already know each other, less of the "now tell me about you", awkwardness 
Let us know how it goes!
[This message edited by better4me at 7:35 PM, February 4th (Saturday)]
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 1:51 AM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
Relax and enjoy the company !
gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:58 AM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
Have fun!
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 11:45 AM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
Update? Pretty please 
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:59 PM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
Hope it went well! If nothing else, we need to know whether or not there were nuts wrapped in American cheese.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:51 PM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
lost and lonely (original poster member #17205) posted at 10:46 PM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
Update.....it didnt happen. He cancelled on me at the last minute claiming a family emergency. Truth? Idk. The cynical side of me says bullshit. Im still debating if i will give him another chance or just walk away now.
Me: 39
WxH: 39
Together 16yrs, married 12yrs (we were 16 and 17 when we met...high school sweethearts)
2 sons
Separated 6/09, Divorced 2/11
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 10:48 PM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
oooh that sux! I don't know what I'd do either. He's got some explaining and apologizing to do!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Bebba1171 ( member #33857) posted at 10:50 PM on Sunday, February 5th, 2012
Give him another chance..Never know what happened. Hoping it is not like the movie "Its Complicated"!
Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:53 PM on Monday, February 6th, 2012
Bummer.
I would give him a second chance if he makes the effort/take the initiative to plan something. I wouldn't chase it though. That's just me.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
BetrayedSAHM ( member #27305) posted at 2:03 PM on Monday, February 6th, 2012
Bah.
I agree with Amazonia. See what he does to recover, but I wouldn't pursue it very hard.
I had a flaker over the weekend. We made plans to meet on Sunday afternoon, then he texted me Saturday evening from a bar asking me to join him (as if). I'm guessing his Saturday night date got canceled or was a dud. Then he canceled the Sunday morning plans, using work as an excuse.
Whatever.
Totally divorced and moved on. Life is fantastic
DS(9) & DD(9)
Dday: 1/1/2010
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