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threw it away (original poster member #34727) posted at 7:22 PM on Tuesday, April 10th, 2012
Deterring with other thoughts really never worked for me. I can't simply bump thoughts out of my head with other ones.
But I think that the next time I find myself attracted to someone, I will try to freeze the moment, concentrate and pick apart all the things that I feel, all the undercurrents which I can see. There really is a lot of detail that I've been missing, I had only to look for it.
me: ww/34
him: 33, has initiated divorce
married 8 years, together for ten
kids 7 and 4
dday 1 - 12/17/2011
dday 2 - 1/26/2012 (my past multiple affairs revealed)
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