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How do I show my wife I think she is beautiful?

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stilllovinghim ( member #29971) posted at 4:04 PM on Saturday, October 27th, 2012

What Sudra said. Exactly.

As for the advice from 4ever...I might want to take that with a grain of salt. Not every woman wants to be completely objectified and think their H is some sex-crazed creature. Making a woman feel beautiful can be sweet caresess but it can also be done in so many other ways.

I suggest explore the other ways that are a bit more gentile than super cave-man aggressive where your talking about her p*$$y while grabbing your crotch, she can't walk through a room without fear of a tit-squeeze.

Look, listen to her when she talks. Really listen. Ask her about her day. Take her somewhere meaningful for no reason, like the first place you went on a date if possible. Get my drift. She needs to feel wanted and special.

[This message edited by stilllovinghim at 10:04 AM, October 27th (Saturday)]

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4evers0rry ( new member #36734) posted at 7:08 PM on Saturday, October 27th, 2012

Not every woman wants to be completely objectified and think their H is some sex-crazed creature. Making a woman feel beautiful can be sweet caresess but it can also be done in so many other ways.

He asked specifically how he could make her "feel beautiful". Sure, those things that the last two posters listed are romantic and would certainly make your wife feel "LOVED" but I am not so sure that it would make her "feel beautiful".

I am also not saying that you have to act like a "sex-crazed creature" and showing your wife that you find her sexy does not make you a sex-crazed cave-man. I was trying to list many different creative ways that someone could express that they find their wife "sexually attractive" (more than just showing romance or love). But again, of course you have to consider your wife and what she would appreciate and what she would not appreciate. I happen to like dirty talk, so I would love it if my husband said some of those things to me. But yes, they are right, every woman is different.

But look around, women always think and say they don't want to be objectified, but our society objectifies them EVERYWHERE and men who objectify women often "get the girl"... So, if society is objectifying every other woman who does not look like your wife, maybe she needs to feel like someone thinks she is worth of being objectified. I am not saying don't do all of the other romantic, gushy stuff... but that is usually what guys tend to think of first when they sit down and really start thinking about what women want.

Just my opinion though, you can take it or leave it.

Me -- 34 WS
Him -- 34 BS
3 children (ages 10 & under)
D-day 8/30/12
Together 6 years.

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